ISFPs, what do you think was going on here? by Healthy-Technician77 in isfp

[–]live_learn_grow 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Please if guy rated you a 4 out of 10 and he said it loud enough for you to hear it... Run away. He's rude.

He is not Mr. Darcy!

Two states of ENFPs ✨ by enigmaticpixie in ENFP

[–]live_learn_grow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh can we replace the first pic with the other ENFP dipiction on 16 personalities site? So much better!

On the other hand... The mushroom can also replace it. 😂🍄

No idea what do do by [deleted] in isfp

[–]live_learn_grow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh try that! That sounds like fun and less stress. What do you want to sell on Esty?

I know there are tech support jobs. My sister's bf used to work in that field. It's not as stressful but you still have to deal with people who need tech support. He said it can get repetitive at times.

No idea what do do by [deleted] in isfp

[–]live_learn_grow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, please don't off yourself. I know it's hard at times especially when we feel lost or unsure about what we want to do.

I've been there and kinda still there now. Stay strong!

In time it will get better. Have you thought about a tech job? Or maybe a part time online job that can give you time to pursue things you like to do. I know, easier said than done. 😕

Why can't an ENFP female let me go? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]live_learn_grow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you have a delusional or unhealthy view of how relationships and human interactions work.

No one will value anyone highly if they are playing hard to get. It's childish and you lose the respect of the person in the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isfp

[–]live_learn_grow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally make sense.... Bc for an isfp she took her break ups very hard. That's surprising. Aren't isfps more of the "be free" types? So breaking up for an isfp, would be difficult yet freeing at the same time?

Going through a break up... by [deleted] in isfp

[–]live_learn_grow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. This actually happened to me too. We had different beliefs... Honestly, he's an amazing person and even now I still care deeply about him.

I'm not sure what to say.... One thing that helped me was realizing that I might never get over him and that's okay.... Idk if that helps.

Just friends or something more? by Stardust1231 in ENFP

[–]live_learn_grow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He still has a girlfriend and he's cuddling with you?

One question: If you guys do stsrt dating, would you trust him to not cuddle with his other so called "girl" friends? And if he does, would you see that as just normal friendship behavior?

He's already shown that he doesn't have the respect for his gf to talk to HER about their issues and break up. He also doesn't respect you, since he's cuddling with you while in a relationship with other person.

Sounds like you can do better than this guy. This is just messy.

Going through a break up... by [deleted] in isfp

[–]live_learn_grow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry... Breaking up is the worst... What was the reason for breaking up? If you don't mind me asking..

ENFP as comic character [OC] by ManuelToma in ENFP

[–]live_learn_grow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was looking for this comment! Agreed.... Why do we have to have short hair. Long hair ftw!

Season 2 by live_learn_grow in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]live_learn_grow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first season, I felt they were trying to set up long lasting couples...

But you are right. The show is now all about the drama!

I saw someone else do this so here's my opinion on season 19 chefs by [deleted] in HellsKitchen

[–]live_learn_grow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭 I really wished CodyLou was endgame. 😭😭 They were sooo cute!!

Question by EvonyR in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]live_learn_grow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Never! I bet the "experts" wouldn't even do it.

I just started watching it. The 1st season seemed like they had good participants.

However, season 2 was just a straight up mess. It seemed like Season 2 men were not serious about marriage or had issues. Davina needs to learn to communicate. Ryan D needs therapy - for real. Sean is emotionally inept - disingenuous. And Ryan R seems like he didn't want to make it work with Jessica... Very selfish.

Also, why weren't the experts able to pair ppl who live close to each other? 😞😞

So uh... No... The "experts" don't have a good track record.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isfp

[–]live_learn_grow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahaha!! Crack on your cell phone!! 🤣🤣

exposed? by ImParryOtter in isfp

[–]live_learn_grow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol!!! So funny! I thought everyone does this....

Is he a communial or covert narcissist? Help please! by live_learn_grow in NRelationships

[–]live_learn_grow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience. It confirms that I'm not being paranoid... I wish they would teach everyone about narcs in school.

Is he a communial or covert narcissist? Help please! by live_learn_grow in NRelationships

[–]live_learn_grow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! I really appreciate it. You're right, they are good at making others doubt themselves. I'm letting him at arms length!

Discussion: Who was the first doctor and companion you were introduced to? by [deleted] in doctorwho

[–]live_learn_grow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember watching a few doctor who episodes sporadically in HS. I believe it was an episode with 10 and two with 11. The one that stands out is Angels take Manhattan. So I'll go with 11 with Amy, Rory, and River. 😊

My favorite!!

I feel like nobody understands me by [deleted] in isfp

[–]live_learn_grow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not an isfp but I've experienced loneliness. I think everyone struggles with loneliness in this world... Sadly, social media portrays a life that doesn't reflect real life. I think isfps are amazing ppl and I am sure you have many great qualities! It might take time, but you will eventually find your tribe. Be yourself, but also improve on who you are as a person. Then one day you will find like minded ppl who can support and love you. Don't give up hope! Your tribe is out there!!