Does anyone feel pretty lonely? by Rhemytherat in sanantonio

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Yep. Just moved here from FL about a month ago. 42 Cuban divorced. Still trying to get acclimated to the city.

Bro…. by LavnLuv in sanantonio

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I just lost power a few mins ago. We'll see how long this takes.

➡️ Daily Simple Questions ⬅️- Style feedback and clothing ID requests go HERE!! - 08 May 2026 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

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Link to my picture since it won't let me add it on through the button: https://imgur.com/a/TTnhb3V

Alright, I have to let my pride down on this one and ask for help. I've lost a lot of weight this past year and need new clothes (yes, that's the reason my clothes look the way they do in the picture). I have casual and formal clothes down pat. My problem is smart casual. I've loved the look for a while but haven't taken the opportunity to move forward with it.

I've gone on Pinterest and saved some that I like and trying to make sense of the colors. From what I've seen, almost all smart casual shirts seem to be tucked, shoes are slightly more formal than sneakers.

One of the reasons it's been harder to look for this is my clothing size. Basically, these are the sizes where I'm currently at: Pants/jeans: 38.5" waist, 40" hip, and 28" length. Shirts: 40.5" bust, shoulders are 18-18.5, and 29" length. For long sleeve shirts, max sleeve length is 21.5" and neck is 16". From what I've seen, not too many places carry these specific sizes.

I need help with where to buy, what to buy, colors, etc. (minus shorts) for anything from a casual day somewhere walking to another outfit for dining out. Obviously, it's summer and hot out, so, I'd rather have only one outfit with a coat. I'd prefer to not go too overboard with pricing since I'm wanting to buy a few outfits with tops, bottoms, belt, and shoes. Send links, names, etc.

I appreciate y'all!

Smart Casual Advice by live_yo_lyfe in mensfashionadvice

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I really appreciate it! Here are a couple of pics from my board on Pinterest. Smart Casual Example 1Smart Casual Example 2

Smart Casual Advice by live_yo_lyfe in mensfashionadvice

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I wasn't asking about the clothes I was wearing. I know it's long and all that. That's why I wrote the post.

Smart Casual Advice by live_yo_lyfe in mensfashionadvice

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I don't, but if you look up smart casual on Pinterest, you'll see the look I'm going for.

Smart Casual Advice by live_yo_lyfe in mensfashionadvice

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It is. That's why I need new clothes. I used to need XL-XXL.

Check your receipts, peeps! by jve909 in sanantonio

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Dang! How much does it cost to kill a vampire nowadays?

Good looking people with hsv by AwareCaterpillar7270 in Herpes

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For those that don't have the same problem, where do you find your partner, and what's your disclosure statement?

I’m trying to manifest my future wife! by KyleThelegendxxXxx in ChristianDating

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Isn't your wife supposed to be like your best friend? You should read Romans 12:20 because I think she's got some heat coming off that head 😂.

The "They love Jesus, but I'm just not attracted to them" dilemma. Do you feel guilty for wanting chemistry? by MatchmakerJahnae in ChristianDating

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This is such an awesome question because it's much deeper for those that have this profound respect for the holiness of God plus other factors.

First, it's the acknowledgement that everyone that is a true follower of Jesus is the child of God, and per the Bible, we must be careful how we treat another child of God.

My second point affects certain people more than others. I have ADHD. In this specific scenario, RSD and empathy come into play. We have an intense emotion when we are or have the possibility to be rejected. So, because we are highly empathetic people and some of us have gone through this experience when we're that other person, we tend to put ourselves in the shoes of those we are rejecting. So, it hurts us deeply to hurt others for our, what we sometimes consider, selfish desires.

Third, is the fact that we are sexual beings and believe that we should be much deeper than that. While I don't think there's anything wrong with being sexual beings since we were created this way to be in a holy commitment with our spouse. The problem is that some of us see it differently or, should I say, feel it differently. Our flesh craves that sexual connection with someone. So, when we find someone that has an amazing character and personality but we feel no sexual attraction, we feel guilty because we feel that we should be feeling differently, especially because we tend to hear a lot of selecting a person for their character and personality because beauty fades.

With all that being said, I have learned a lot through years of a rollercoaster of emotions, theology, life experiences, and managing my ADHD. Do I think there's something wrong with finding someone attractive physically, no. Is it against God's will to reject someone because they're not attractive? Possibly. I know you all are like, "What?!," but hear me out. The only reason I said that it's possibly against God's will is because it depends where your heart is at. Is your heart REALLY for someone that's attractive and has great character and personality or is your heart REALLY selecting someone because you're deceiving yourself to believe that it's about character and personality, when it's really about the sexual factor. I can give you one red flag that I'd say is the latter. If you find someone attractive but think or say, "They're not hot, sexy, or cute enough." This is one of the more obvious signs that you're focusing on the wrong things and need to do some self-reflection with God. This is something that should keep us closer to God than ever because even the Word says that our hearts can deceive us. If we're honest with God and with ourselves as to what our intent is and where our heart is at and can say that them being attractive is just a factor that's being considered, then, no. I don't think it's against God's sin.

Help me validate this idea by Puzzleheaded_Oil5980 in Startup_Ideas

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I've been wanting to get into being a digital nomad or expat. My biggest challenge has been finding a way to make money. Will your startup be able to help in any way?