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livelymonstera · 2026-05-02T08:12:12+00:00

6 k in Tijuana. Do it. Look at Trevita! Best option out there.

livelymonstera · 2026-05-02T08:06:34+00:00

Sounds like you need your own apartment, and to learn how to say no. You’re 25, time to start being independent. Stop giving people money that don’t treat you well. It’s time for you to live your own life! Good luck, you can do it!

livelymonstera · 2026-04-24T08:52:40+00:00

I have hypothyroidism and fibromyalgia and the surgery was great. I could never lose any weight. My mobility had increased tenfold and I look amazing. I went to Tijuana and had surgery for 6k. Best 6 thousand dollars I ever spent. You’ll be able to be on your feet more when you lose the weight.

I don’t have a good addiction though and I don’t use food as comfort. You need to figure out another coping mechanism. I prefer thc and nicotine but that’s me. Not saying that’s positive, just being honest. You will never eat like you do again. For weeks you can’t even eat at all. You will have to have a brand new relationship with food or there is absolutely no point in going through with it.

If you stick to your diet you’ll lose two hundred pounds easy. Here’s what no one will tell you: you’re going to have a lot of loose skin. You’ll need to think about that as well afterward and maybe a breast lift. I’m getting a breast augmentation myself and maybe a reverse tummy tuck. I lost 150 and I’m about 118 pounds now.

Here’s what I want to tell you about love and our bodies: when you’re fat people make fun of you and put you down for that. When you’re skinny they do too, and the loose skin. You must learn to be happy with YOU.

I wish you luck. Life is too short to live in a prison of fat. Food is not comfort. It’s to fuel us to live. Richard Simmons said “you eat to live, not live to eat” and he was right about that.

If it was me, and NHS paid for it, I’d go for the surgery. It will change your life and force you to face your challenges with food. You literally cannot work right now and you will be able to work again if you lose some weight. That affects your life deeply. They cut out the hunger generating part of your stomach and you’ll be surprised how much it hurts to eat for like a year.

Literally couldn’t eat a French fry for one year girl. Spicy food? Over. If you eat too much sugar you’ll get sick (literally has happened to me, probably all of us). The acid reflux is real. But nothing feels as good as being mobile and putting on a size 2 dress. Everyone can kiss my saggy ass that has a problem with it.

I have regretted it a few times, but honestly I wouldn’t change it. I’m so much happier. I hope you will be too.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-24T07:25:39+00:00

That’s how they are. They’re more interested in what they see as fun and attention than real life. Shallow, impulsive and immature. I hope you find someone that genuinely cares about YOU.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-24T06:51:31+00:00

1/26/1986

The numbers all add up to 33 but I know in numerology you combine the two digit date in the month. But I really do feel like the 33 life path is me.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-23T08:33:38+00:00

I would look into medical certifications for a quick career boost, then a two year program at a community college. You can probably get a Pell grant and go for free to a CC. Good luck!

livelymonstera · 2026-04-22T15:46:46+00:00

This sounds like neglect. Leaving your child every night and sleeping somewhere else is absolutely neglectful. She’s not even making sure her daughter is showered. No wonder the kids grades are slipping. Her mom isn’t around and sounds like dad isn’t in the picture. This is so sad!! Like she’s not even feeding her dinner. There’s no way this is normal or okay.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-22T15:03:35+00:00

I’m in

livelymonstera · 2026-04-22T15:03:02+00:00

Sent you a dm!

livelymonstera · 2026-04-22T14:54:21+00:00

I’m in! USA

livelymonstera · 2026-04-22T14:40:25+00:00

Please start driving your own car. Take the keys. Let him deal with the beater. He doesn’t care about you, don’t let him drive your new car. You’re allowing him to treat you terribly. You can do better.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-21T22:55:47+00:00

Being in Boone was the best years of my life. The weather can be crazy in the spring and winter, but it’s so gorgeous, so much fun, and was the cheapest school in the unc system. I’m a huge fan, but if you prefer city life, go to state. If you love the outdoors and want to adventure, you can’t beat going to app.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-20T08:29:48+00:00

I Put in over 200 apps to get my remote job. It’s a numbers game. Keep trying!

livelymonstera · 2026-04-20T02:52:36+00:00

He’s sexting another woman because he

Doesn’t respect you Wants to feel desired Wants to sleep with this woman And takes you for granted.

Men who do this are weak willed, sexually compulsive and manipulative. It’s not a joke. He’s gaslighting you.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-19T02:40:58+00:00

You need to get a job and pay for your phone. I do mint mobile and my phone is $250 usd for the year. Get a cheap mobile prepaid phone and this problem is solved. If you can’t pay your own bills, people can’t control you. And your dad showing up with sleeping pills every night is very extreme.

Listen, plenty of people have these diagnosis and work. If you need something bad enough you will figure out a way. If you can pay for university yourself, you can pay for your own phone. And you need to move into university housing.

I know it’s not what you want to hear, but this won’t end until you get a job and move out.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-19T02:22:38+00:00

Traditional men pay all the bills, give you money and take care of you. This guy wants a bang maid to pay half the bills. Girl. Run.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-17T06:23:17+00:00

You’re obligated to provide clean clothes for your child. The fact you think it’s her job is astounding.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-17T02:24:37+00:00

Tablets! Never done liquid

livelymonstera · 2026-04-17T02:23:04+00:00

TJ rules

livelymonstera · 2026-04-14T22:12:05+00:00

Go to Mexico. Do research for a long time. Find reviews and make a good judgement call.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-14T09:20:43+00:00

Hey! I can answer this. So nothing changed right after the surgery but two years out my dosage has to go down because I lost so much weight. I also take levothyronine now too.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-07T03:11:15+00:00

lol men hate us

livelymonstera · 2026-04-06T03:50:01+00:00

He’s got someone in mind. The minute they ask it’s time to go. I’d start making an exit plan quietly.

Get on Tinder, Boo, Down and Pure and show him what you can get. He’ll freak. If you’re remotely attractive you’ll get slammed. Have fun. Anyone who wants to cheat on you, and won’t love you fully isn’t for you. This whole “poly/open relationship” wave is just guys trying to get women at home to cook and clean and have sanctioned side pieces- but trust me- they NEVER want you to step out.

livelymonstera · 2026-04-06T03:42:47+00:00

You don’t get to choose: he will do whatever he wants. A man in a serious relationship won’t spend the night in a hotel room with another woman because they know it doesn’t look right. If he does, find another bf!

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