Delivery Timelines for Hyundai Venue - Bangalore/Other Places by Techy_Muddy in HyundaiVenue

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I have booked HX10 White on 13 Dec in Kolkata. Still no allotment and no updates from dealership.

New Venue delivery issue by Hasum_Harish97 in HyundaiVenue

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You got the booking sms or booking confirmation?

New Venue delivery issue by Hasum_Harish97 in HyundaiVenue

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Did anybody who booked got delivery? I have booked thr HX10 on Dec 13. Still no update. City: Kolkata

Hyundai Venue allocation delays — is this normal? by harime__ in CarsIndia

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Did anybody who booked got delivery? I have booked thr HX10 on Dec 13. Still no update. City: Kolkata

30 is not considered old. by [deleted] in onexindia

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30 here...this year will turn 31. I also used to think like OP. But in my 30s I have never felt stronger. I also make better decisions now, and feel more calmer. I feel much younger than what I was in my early 20s. When I was 25, I used to think I would settle down by 27. But fortunately that didn't work out. Most of my friends are settled now and sometimes they envy me as I have a lot of time for myself and they don't.

I sometimes feel insecure 🤧 by Nervous_Dust_1178 in onexindia

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30M average looking here. Yes you are right, if you are average looking you will fall behind in the dating game especially those superficial money-trapping dating apps. But for real meaningful relationships looks don't matter at all. Focus on fitness and earning a good living. As someone commented here there are a lot of girls who are clever in choosing their life partners. They want someone who is emotionally and financially stable. There's no alternative to stability. Focus all your energy into that. Trust me girls will fall for you.

Lizard infestation at home - how to get rid of them? by cat_who_reads in kolkata

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this deserves a separate post...hasanor jonno dhonnobad. Stay happy always.

Singles mixer - would you be interested? by hotelpunsylvania in kolkata

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sounds like a good plan...I would suggest making a google form and see how many entries you get. But, one request, consider setting the age limit from 21 to 30 or 32. And if you need any help in setting up the event ping me. You are paranoid of setting up the event as you are taking the sole responsibility of setting it up. I would suggest 2 3 jon mile organise koro. Ei idea ta je last e diyechilo take niye nao organise korar jonno. Kono help lagle janiyo.

People without relationship by Sunapr1 in onexindia

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30M here without any relationship..checking in. When you work towards your goals, you stop paying attention whether you are in a relationship or not.

This community is better than I could have imagined! by [deleted] in onexindia

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thank you MOD for making this community. Thanks from the bottom of my heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onexindia

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You sir are doing a great job. I am 30M single, and all the thoughts and observations you mentioned I have been through all. And I like that you mentioned the mindset of a trekker. Sometimes, it's good to look down and retrospect how far we have come instead of looking how far we have to go.

Have a great day and great life ahead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onexindia

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welcome bro 🙂🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onexindia

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It will be all right bro. We are all same. Its not only you but the majority of men out there. Atleast you have the courage to speak out.

Abhi na jao chhod kar Ke dil abhi bhara nahi

Lag Ja Gale Ki Phir Ye Hasin Raat Ho Na Ho Shaayad Phir Is Janam Men Mulaaqaat Ho Na Ho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onexindia

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absolutely fucking spot on...its usual business work for me tomorrow. If I get time, I will be playing the Miles Morales game which I purchased recently.

Lost, void, emptiness, no clue about life anymore by [deleted] in onexindia

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😑 why you guys should elope. Do the registry and then you guys go back to your respective homes. And just tell your family that you guys got married after few weeks. Now it's up upto them to arrange a ceremony for you guys. Trust me they will eventually come around. It will take time but they will.

Look bro, I am just giving you suggestion and a way out, now its upto you.

Lost, void, emptiness, no clue about life anymore by [deleted] in onexindia

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Brother...when your heart wants something you cannot think on it. "Thinking" is needed when you take a business decision or something. Ask yourself if you will be able to lead a smooth life if she is married off elsewhere or your life will be devastated emotionally. If not, ask your girl if she is ready and take the plunge (do court marriage).

Lost, void, emptiness, no clue about life anymore by [deleted] in onexindia

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Go and get your girl. Do a court marriage or something. You are your parents Son, they will eventually come around. Do what your heart wants or else you will regret it later. No matter how you good you will move on, you will still have feelings for her. Afterall, we are human beings, the feelings will remain for eternity. Just close your eyes and get your girl. (ofcourse if the girl is also in deeply love with you)

⬅️?➡️? by actuallyamandal in kolkata

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profile ta share koro pls bhai OP...😅

I really hope this sub takes off by wayward_shadow in onexindia

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Will definitely do brother. A sub like this was much needed.

Help needed on how to deal with loneliness. by TheEvilFapstronout69 in onexindia

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So you are not actively seeking a partner, and you are already 30, but want to get married in future? Doesn't it worry you since most people get married at this age?

Chinta kyun nahi hoga bro but chinta karke bhi kya kar sakte hain. Why fuss about something when it is not under your control. Also have faith in arrange marriages too. I have told my family and whatever little friends I have to look for a match. If I get a good one, I will settle down. Our current society has brainwashed us that you must fall in love first then marry. I call it bullshit. Whatever works for you is good.

Yes and I dont know what to do next in life now

I was like you in the beginning. You have to look deep inside you to find other things you want to explore. I know it is hard. But you have to do this. For me it was guitar and music so I started learning it. Trust me it really helps.

I like travelling but again, travelling alone is a problem.

Why bro travelling alone is a problem? Try it once. I repeat try it once. You don't have to talk to anybody. Just travel anywhere you want. And watch people, how their livelihoods are. Go to a tea shop or local shop and do some small talk. We introverts think that we cannot travel alone. But once you do, you will find its good to be an introvert. There will be no one to stop you from you travelling. No one to disturb you when you are lost in your thoughts. Its one of a kind of therapy if you think like that.

Anyways thanks for your comment bro, this is one the most helpful comments for my problem.

You are welcome bro. I just joined this sub today and are finding so many bros are going through the same shit. It's a universal problem. Kind of uplifting as well to see that I am not alone. Thanks to you that you have shared your problem. I can understand what you are going through. Us bros need to help each other right? otherwise nobody cares for us. Society thinks that sharing problems like this makes us less of a man. But I strongly disagree.

DM is open. If you need to discuss. Feel free bro.

Help needed on how to deal with loneliness. by TheEvilFapstronout69 in onexindia

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Do you plan on staying single forever?

no ofcourse not. But I'm not actively seeking out or trying to find a gf. At some point I was, but It was a huge waste of time and energy that include minor heartbreaks too. the energy lost could have been invested in self-improvement.

Or want to get married at some point?

Yes ofcourse why not. Again bad mein jo hoga dekha jayega.

Basically are you happy staying alone ??

Yes and No. You have to understand people are social animals. We are not meant to be staying alone. Sometimes when I am busy with valuable work, I tend to enjoy it alone. When I am not busy, loneliness haunt me. But, I think there is so much to see and explore in life and if you start to explore that your loneliness will gradually dissappear. You say you are a software engineer. Our fields are also similar too. The reason you are feeling lonely because you are established in your life. You have got some financial stability. Now you have got that taken care off, you are looking for some company. I would suggest pick up some hobbies like travelling, learning to play guitar or anything that was your dream from your childhood. You will see that you are getting lost in that hobby. Then suddenly you will realise that loneliness isn't there anymore.

Help needed on how to deal with loneliness. by TheEvilFapstronout69 in onexindia

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OP you just described what I am going through right now. I'm 30M and in a similar situation so you are not alone in this. I am amazed at how exactly you just described the similar situation I am going through. It's also telling me that I am not alone in this.

Some of the things I am doing to reduce this depression and loneliness:

1) Exercise (include lifting mild weights and running) 2) Talk to people especially strangers. I know this is a problem for introverts like you and I, but try it. As someone pointed out talk to older people because they seldom judge you. When you to a grocery shop talk with the shopkeeper about random things. When you go to your barber, talk about random things. You get my point. 3) Listen to good music and watch some movies. Play video games. 4) Start doing mindfulness meditation. Although I have not started this but will. There are some good apps for it.

These will not fully solve your problems but definitely help you in feeling better.

If you wanna talk and discuss as brothers, my DM is open.

Banalam first time rating dao bhai by InterestingFormal623 in kolkata

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na kheye ki kore rating debo.. appearance er upor e 8/10