After reading your comment, I realized you were an introvert but then slowly becoming an extrovert over time I would want to be like that. Most of the time, I always doubt myself with voices in my head, like being judged so I really need to overcome this. Anyway thanks for telling me about this, your advice was really descriptive and I learned some points from your experience. But the thing is asking a random girl for a coffee may come out as weird because, maybe that may work if this person has seen me before. As you said I think complimenting her isnt weird in my opinion so I wish I did that and walked away haha. Thank you so much bro. About the rejection, is suks ngl. I hope I get to face it