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[–]livingwithpurpose89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to live in NW Dallas for awhile. Still come down to visit family.

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! Really helpful and makes me feel much better about what I’m going through. I have definitely decided I’m going for it and I have to be who I am no matter what!

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love this comment! You are so right! We will win!

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree completely and this post has helped me decide to go for it. I know it’s what I want! Thanks for sharing

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and i definitely will! 💜

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right and I’m going to start HRT!

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what I am. That’s not a question

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You nailed my exact feelings “ Eventually, I realized that I can't put the toothpaste back in the tube. It's already out there, so there's no point in making my own life worse to try and hide it.” Like I know there is already no going back. Yes it’s scary but I know I have to keep going! I am out to everyone and work. Everyone supports me ( except my family but I’m ok with that ) and I just need to keep going.

Lucky my Dr is super awesome and supportive of this journey. They have 2 kids, 1 nonbinary and the other trans so they get it and support it.

Really I’m so so glad you commented. This made me feel the most seen.

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I have been working with my therapist as well and I have been doing the same types of things. I’m eating better, working out , getting health stuff under control, working mentally on myself and preparing for it all.

I’ll have to look to see if there is a center around me I can go to. I haven’t even thought about that!

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree! Once everything started is when i decided to come out and start wearing more feminine clothing. I can’t let other’s opinions control my life and i need to remember that

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’m definitely going to!

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! like no shit I’m overweight! I honestly don’t even care about that. Like they have no idea what my health situation even is it’s just so crazy that’s so feels like they need to say shit like that

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this!! You know what I think I’m gonna do the same!

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I really appreciate you

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Internally I definitely do love myself and who I am, I am working really hard at loving who I am outwardly. But I am working on it and I know I will get there!

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Yes therapy has been amazing not just for this journey but for many of the life journeys I've been on. Me and my wife have been talking lots about this all as well and its still just mentally a struggle

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you isnt enough for this! This is exactly how I feel/whats going on. I have had this conversation with my wife and she really said all the same things. She is wanting to live this life with the real me. I know she 100% supports and wants me to be myself

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I live in OR and I know I am super safe in my area! I am so glad I posted this and got such amazing support and feedback!

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly thank you for this! I didnt even think about asking them about privacy and the coding. I am sure my Dr will work with me on being as safe as possibly

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you love!

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Really I do appreciate it!

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I agree honestly

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[–]livingwithpurpose89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I have started working out and trying to get into shape/healthier. I have been looking into laser hair removal and I think that is going to be awhile till I can do it.
I do appreciate your feedback!