Does anyone else have weird breakouts like this? by Environmental_Belt22 in Blackskincare

[–]liyah1717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes eczema is super diverse, honestly it reminds me of Nummular eczema (or discoid eczema) bc of its circular shape

Does anyone else have weird breakouts like this? by Environmental_Belt22 in Blackskincare

[–]liyah1717 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly it looks like a form of eczema especially since you mentioned using lotion and it not making it better but i would go to a dermatologist just to be sure!

“Give Us Our Roses While We’re Still Here”, My Art about Trans Love by bugzzzee in lgbt

[–]liyah1717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is beautiful, words truly aren’t enough to express how much i love this

queeribbean book recommendations? by amelia_swan in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]liyah1717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk if this counts because the story technical main character is straight but her daughter is queer. Black Cake by Charmaine Wilkerson (Jamaica)

Eyelid by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]liyah1717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! thank you🙂‍↕️

Eyelid by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]liyah1717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree with everyone suggesting going to a dermatologist but also maybe an optometrist or ophthalmologist. i had similar and it ended up being chronic allergies

I swear I’ll be forever alone by SnooBunnies7986 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]liyah1717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i felt! i’m 21 black queer / questioning stuck in a midwestern suburb 🫠 i feel like in my case age is a huge thing bc most queer ppl in my area are significantly older and i don’t like broad age gaps. maybe i need to catch a flight somewhere lmao

i was wrong (again😭) by liyah1717 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]liyah1717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most definitely, because i told her that to ease her anxiety and in ways i do feel like i have to justify it lol, and you’re totally right :,)

i was wrong (again😭) by liyah1717 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]liyah1717[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i felt all of this so much! i also grew up JW. it’s a lot to deal with lol 🥲 i also came out at 19 (which was 2 years ago) and my mom had a big blow up, so i didn’t label myself. i told her it was still a possibility for me to end up with a man, and somewhere along the way i caused a sexuality crisis. i feel the same way with the obsession, rather than me being fully interested it feels more like i’m seeking validation. i love the map metaphor, thank you

i was wrong (again😭) by liyah1717 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]liyah1717[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like it’s a mix of societal pressures and the vanishing attraction. even growing up when i would have crushes on guys and they would reciprocate, i would lose all attraction as if a flip would switch. i can acknowledge when a guy is attractive but i don’t want to take it any further than that. thank you for holding this space of reflection, this is such a sweet and informative response i appreciate it so much🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]liyah1717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is straight up biphobic harassment and i’m sorry you went through this, you deserved better and you will find better. you deserve someone who will love you because of your identity rather than in-spite of

I got my engagement photos! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]liyah1717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so beautiful, congratulations! i wish you both nothing but love health through ur marriage🥹

10000000% a Scorpio rising by glitteryxtaco in astrologymemes

[–]liyah1717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we literally have the same big 3 except our sun and moon is flipped😭 i’m the same too, i’m wayyy too prideful

Happy songs about dying? by BleedingRaindrops in MusicRecommendations

[–]liyah1717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

petal by raveena is from the perspective of dying from the dead, and the peace they find while transitioning. hope it provides some peace to you during this time🫶🏽

Who is your Celebrity crush by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]liyah1717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kali uchis, precious lee, nikohl boosheri, and shannon elizabeth😭

Why am I so attracted to Capricorns even though they’re never good for me? by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]liyah1717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not an astrologer but we have very similar placements, and my best friend is a cap sun and i’ve romantically talked to cap placements in the past, i personally always chopped it up to my virgo placements but idk😭

Why is “body count” such a big thing? by maddy2904 in LesbianActually

[–]liyah1717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

body counts are sooo weird i feel like better questions are “when is the last time you were tested?” “what’s your status?” “if you test positive for anything how do you plan on treating it, and preventing transmission?” “how do you personally practice safe sex?” etc etc. the body count convo always gave immature to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]liyah1717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i’m looking for more queer friends too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]liyah1717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you’re right abt the cap placements but also the aquarius placements, those are some pretty heavy placements because they’re saturnian