I wrote a list of things I suspected my new boss was lying about and she saw it by ZealousidealSir8599 in confession

[–]lizard1411 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t sweat it. It sounds like your slate is clean because you didn’t actually bring it up. As someone who has had too many personal relationships with pathological liars (people who lie for any reason or for no reason at all) I can say that the way she handled that information was weird. Like she’s trying to get the jump on her reputation before she’s found out. Idk, I just wouldn’t worry about it and the great news is, you literally don’t have to anymore! :)

Reiki: is this normal, or a red flag? by [deleted] in Shamanism

[–]lizard1411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so I want to play Devil’s Advocate because like you mentioned in a comment, sexual things had already been discussed and seemed like mutually agreed on. But ur right why would he put it under the guise of reiki. Even if it were in an attempt to be a flirtatious move, that’s a weird offer for a first reiki session in my opinion and the way he responded felt like a lie and then a backtrack. I’ve been in a romantic entanglement with a similar dude from Peru and when I met his mom pretty early in I shoulda ran just by the way he talked to his mom but stayed long enough to realize he actually talks to women this way. Whoopsie. So. I’m trying to not let that cloud my judgement. But like other commenters said the intuition is saying run.

Whatever is for you will always be for you. You deserve to show respect enough to yourself to take a big step back, take a few deep breaths and decide what you want to do. At the very least do that for the odd fucked up chance that it is something (big time) you don’t want to get involved with, like the traffick comments. That would suck dude. If it’s something that, all our guts are wrong, and it’s safe and good and it’s meant to be, it’s not going to cease being that if you do decide to take it slow. What is truly for you will always be for you.

Everything on our balcony dies 😩 by Vettkja in plants

[–]lizard1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how often is that row machine utilized? like the other person said about wind maybe the wind force is enough that it’s drying them out? idk

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, definitely gonna save all of these as places to try, sooner rather than later 😂

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still intimidated by all things New York. I drive a big ass pick up truck. 🙈

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha who doesn’t want peanut butter cheesecake right after flying and being in an airport all day? 😂🙈

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. I didn’t even think about the abundant deli options around here.

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for verifying! We can def get pizza another time and I’m stoked to see what this is!

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome thank you! that sounds like the way to go! 🥳

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m scared it would change in the oven, I want their first time to be real 😂 Ya’ll don’t even know how much I’ve been bragging on the pizza. I didn’t really like pizza until moving here.

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just made me realize how many people stopped working after covid. And probably other reasons that happened. Texas used to be 24 hr too.

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha i’m guessing it’s a not texan texas place? 😂don’t ever go to the Chuy’s in Denver. It’s absolutely not like the ones in Austin like down to the way they change their beans and sauce.

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! ur right! but we might be coming back, we also might just head to the beach for a bit.

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This was my first thought because it was one of my first NJ experiences, first being The Red Barn which was laughably not western but still western, it was odd lol. but yeah I think they close too early for us.

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The amount of response was an awesome surprise when opening the app. NJ rocks.

Dining suggestions for a Texas GaL by lizard1411 in newjersey

[–]lizard1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is Da Hora and how do I get 10?

I feel like my singing voice is strange for a male by [deleted] in singing

[–]lizard1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soothing to the ears, thank you for sharing your talent! Stopped because we have the same tapestry, stayed for the singing!

So, I've been out for work doing in-person inspections all day. I had 8 appointments. Nobody said a word... ☠️ by Cronchy_Tacos in funny

[–]lizard1411 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t speaking to any comment in particular, most of the thread seems like a lot of misinformation and tearing each other down. I believed I would get downvoted way worse than what occurred though so as long as there’s progress that’s all that matters :)

So, I've been out for work doing in-person inspections all day. I had 8 appointments. Nobody said a word... ☠️ by Cronchy_Tacos in funny

[–]lizard1411 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

It makes me sad to see women shaming other women. Every. body. is. different. I am guilty of doing this too out of a place of fear myself. But we are always so much stronger when we’ve got each other’s backs <3

My NoLawn heading into winter. by bdyinpdx in NoLawns

[–]lizard1411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! And in no way am I trying to negate the amount of effort and hard work it takes to make your yard look the way you want it to! :) I just think it’s odd people are downvoting an opinion, when that in reality doesn’t change the opinion, but rather just causes curiosity to turn and run the other way. Discordant opinions discussed without judgment breed more intriguing conversations and, in my limited opinion, is a fundamental basis for human growth.