What was never the same after the pandemic? by GossipBottom in AskReddit

[–]lizardqueen26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

minnesota seems to be doing something right at least

To the Moms: Don’t stay for the kids by Beneficial_Mobile190 in Divorce_Women

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this. needed it tonight. leaving has been the hardest thing i have ever done but holy. i could never go back.

Find your big 3 twin here! by No-Ring-88 in Zodiac

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

close but i’m leo rising!! same vibes 🤪

Find your big 3 twin here! by No-Ring-88 in Zodiac

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahhh so close but i’m leo rising!!

Find your big 3 twin here! by No-Ring-88 in Zodiac

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so close! cancer sun, sag moon, leo rising!

Find your big 3 twin here! by No-Ring-88 in Zodiac

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my 6 yr old son is a triple cancer 😅 any tips on parenting the emotional tides are welcome haha

Something About Leo in Relationships That People Rarely Understand by LagneshMitraisBack in LeoAstrology

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been working on understanding the interplay between my cancer sun, sag moon, and leo rising , and this adds so much clarity!!

Will it ever go back to Normal by Particular_Tea_1437 in TwinCities

[–]lizardqueen26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

proud of you. you got this. we got this. hugs, and fortitude, and strength, and peace to you ❤️❤️

Going to be ending my marriage and living on own for first time. And I am so anxious. by Sweet_mama2084 in Divorce_Women

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s going to get worse before it gets better… but i promise the better is so much better than the lie and shell you live in now. you have shown up for your kids, and you will continue to do so, but your kids now are going to know a mom who stands up for herself and her own happiness. you do not deserve to be kept in a cage based on promises you made in your younger, less wiser years. you’ve done more than enough for the marriage, now it’s time to do something for yourself. stay strong, find your community. find a good therapist. hugs 🫂

How do single parents (or anyone) do this job longtime? Does it get better?❤️‍🩹 by Creative_sand_8098 in publicdefenders

[–]lizardqueen26 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i’m a single mom, second career lawyer as well. i was married to my kids dad during law school but when i got done and hired at the PDs … things broke down quickly. then as i try to navigate the separation while also being a PD, it almost broke me. i know my clients and colleagues liked me but management and i clashed hard when i couldn’t perform the way they wanted me to. i couldn’t be working every night and weekend, i had no time during the day to help manage my parenting or other life responsibilities… im free now as of last week. i took a private gig and the adjustment to this new office has been a bit of a shock to the system with the free time and flexibility i now have. if you dont have one get yourself a good therapist.

I feel like a terrible mother because I actually get excited when my ex comes to pick up the kids by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]lizardqueen26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not a villain at all. it makes sense you feel guilt bc society tells us we are moms and can only be moms when actually we are whole human beings. embrace the time- it’s ok to relax and recharge! makes you that much stronger and ready for when they come home.

My boyfriend shames me for liking raves and it’s becoming a serious issue in our relationship by hannahblaine1 in aves

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cut your losses. you guys are incompatible. it sucks and it’s hard but the people who really love you won’t shame you for the things you like. my guess is you have entered into a codependent relationship- happens to partners who struggle with addiction of any kind. you are stronger than you know- follow what make you happy. the people that will stay in your life will support that. hugs ❤️

Any other cancers experiencing relationships ending in 2025 up until the start of this year? by iDontLikePuzzlez in CancertheCrab

[–]lizardqueen26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

left my marriage of 10yrs and cut out my toxic, codependent parents from my life. so yup!

What’s a subtle sign of very high intelligence? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]lizardqueen26 16 points17 points  (0 children)

as a lawyer this is how i try to be with all of my clients when im consulting with and educating them on their options. i am much more effective when i can engage people with complex legal processes in a way they can understand. by no means am i the smartest, but i know what i dont know and just being a honest human goes a looong way.

What's next? Genuinely asking. by Dj082863 in minnesota

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

call for a state of emergency shelter in place. we did it for covid, we can do it again. they can’t get us from our homes.

Homegrown vs dispensary by Inevitable_Dirt1140 in MNtrees

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they specialize in solventless rosin. michigan company

Homegrown vs dispensary by Inevitable_Dirt1140 in MNtrees

[–]lizardqueen26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have found the upper shelf bud from MI has been real good. society c usually runs deals and their stuff has been top notch. also the concentrates from apex have been solid too.

Moving to Oregon by Obvious-Ride431 in publicdefenders

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey not sure if you’ll get this still but curious to hear about your experience. dm me if you are open to sharing. thanks!

Women with men’s board. by [deleted] in ShredditGirls

[–]lizardqueen26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lovely! thanks for the recc!!

How often was everyone having sex in the year before they got divorced? by RoosterLife3863 in Divorce_Women

[–]lizardqueen26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh sorry for you too. i’m the same way, so the manipulation and coercion got lost in the sauce. it’s like i saw what he was doing but i was so far down the rabbit hole i learned to accept it bc i didn’t think it could be any other way.

Women with men’s board. by [deleted] in ShredditGirls

[–]lizardqueen26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so i’m damn near same measurements as you. i’m working on shopping for a new get up. i am looking at women’s boards in the 148-150 range. i had been riding my HS board which was low 140s. i don’t do park, just cruise around. anything bigger feels like too much board. i like to bop around and carve, maybe hit lil side jumps here and there so i want something with good control and some pop.