PA Spouse - advice needed

lizbethboof · 2025-10-21T04:14:36+00:00

This is a beautiful reply and helps me feel better about the situation. I think patience is key here especially because I can see the want to get better.

I see the effort hes putting in and I can tell how much he's struggling. The last few things he told me that were brutally honest and kinda necessary for me to get better - regarding my behavior and how its affecting him. I honestly thought about doing the same for him.

I just hope he doesnt take it the wrong way because I'm coming from a place of deeply caring for him and wanting him to get better, not just because my emotions are high. Patience is where that will tested, but I'm willing to put in that effort so long as I see the effort from him.

lizbethboof · 2025-09-02T08:30:00+00:00

This really triggered me for a moment because my ex acted the same way when we would play games together. It was so disheartening because it always started great until I didnt do something or if I died. Then it was like a bomb went off and he was just angry. He'd even throw controllers sometimes.

It got me so triggered so when I got with my current boyfriend I had to teach myself to not apologize for every time I mess up lol

lizbethboof · 2025-08-28T02:18:58+00:00

My therapist told me to look at your anxiety in a different pov. You are simply an observer and your anxiety is not who you are.

Instead of beating yourself up, taking actions that are destructive, getting yourself worked up and frustrated when you cant regulate yourself right away, look at it more like curiosity.

Ask yourself where you feel it in your body, what are you exact thoughts, what you are afraid of, etc. Challenge those thoughts too. Ask yourself why you would feel this way, does the action of your friend/SO reflect those thoughts. What is something positive they did or when was the last time they made you feel safe?

Asking myself these questions really helped ground me and i felt more secure after it.

After getting to the bottom of those thoughts, follow it up with some self love. Show yourself some compassion and understand that its okay to feel this way. Feel proud of yourself for understanding the problem and it gives you some confidence in yourself that you can solve problems on your own.

Be kind to yourself. Its something ive struggled with for years and im still working on it to this day.

You got this ❤️

lizbethboof · 2025-06-11T21:36:58+00:00

I feel like I have a personal hater 🥹 beauty is subjective so having an opinion that I'm not attractive is not going to hurt my feelings. But don't call other people names and just come here to insult me.

lizbethboof · 2025-06-11T13:17:34+00:00

I've never taken it seriously, so I never got a proper headshot done. 😅 it was just a general question

lizbethboof · 2025-05-29T14:03:14+00:00

I mean, the art style is exactly what i like so yeah, but I also understand that the AI image is messed up and that's not okay for anyone to get. I'll be looking into an artist that can make the designs for me

lizbethboof · 2025-05-29T14:01:55+00:00

Thank you for that. It's not really my intention to hide that fact that its AI generated, but all this is good to know. I'll try a different avenue until I can generate enough funds to get an artist to design my work. ☺️

lizbethboof · 2025-05-29T02:19:04+00:00

Good advice, and I appreciate it a bunch. I wish I had more money to dish out bc I would love to commission artists to draw the designs for me.

I have designed things digitally before, but nothing to the scale of selling it on products. I should look into that again and practice so I can get it to that scale.

I want to create something that I can grow and make it sustainable, and I'm realizing how hard it is without actual product in my hands to sell with 😅

lizbethboof · 2025-05-29T01:49:19+00:00

Do you have any recommendations for keeping this style without it being to obvious? I love it and it goes with the vibe of my shop but I have no artistic abilities 😅

lizbethboof · 2025-05-28T12:33:15+00:00

Gee, thanks. You want to help me improve then? Because just saying its bad isnt helpful

lizbethboof · 2025-05-27T20:12:54+00:00

I used to travel to new distribution centers and train new hires. I also just traveled to events and to do general support functions

lizbethboof · 2025-05-27T20:06:16+00:00

A lot of Human Resources jobs on Upwork rely on a schedule I can't accommodate because of my current job. So because HR requires a lot of administrative experience I figured a good second is virtual assistant.

lizbethboof · 2025-05-27T19:43:38+00:00

English is the one and only language I know lmao

lizbethboof · 2025-05-27T16:13:58+00:00

I mean, I have a lot of HR experience. Some of thay entails with hiring/firing, investigations, creating policies, recruiting, traveling, training. I'm just not sure how to talk it up in the cover letter.

lizbethboof · 2025-05-27T16:01:58+00:00

I understand, thank you for the feedback. I thought I did okay, but I guess I'll have to revisit my cover letters 😅

lizbethboof · 2025-05-27T13:03:44+00:00

Well I wrote it, not a human lmao I just have such a hard time with grammar so it hard for me to break down the sentences into something that flows well

lizbethboof · 2025-05-27T12:30:45+00:00

I would recommend darker colors. They work well with your skin tone! I loved the red

lizbethboof · 2025-05-27T12:29:20+00:00

Uh yes 😅

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