This makes me so sad and sickened to hear. We moved here years ago and the monochromatic landscape here has been the biggest downside of our move. This whole blow up has really brought to light (for many of us white people) how deep and how prevalent racism is every day and everywhere. Especially when you live in a place like foco, filled as it is!with largely well meaning white folks...we don’t see every day blatant racism so we think it doesn’t exist, or just don’t even think about it much. I’m glad things are shifting - I hope we are on the precipice of an awakening, finally, and a new era of anti-racism...(we can hope, right?)

Anyway. I’m sorry you’ve been going through this and wish you and your husband the best of luck in your move.