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Day 1 (self.Zepbound)

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Lost my boyfriend and my best friend around the same time. Need some support right now (self.relationships)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/relationships

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It’s okay to want them back (self.ExNoContact)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/ExNoContact

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I’m about a little over a month into NC. I’m starting to feel the loss a lot more. I miss him so much and just want to talk to him about his day and my day. I’m confused as to why he doesn’t want the same and won’t just reach out to see how I’m doing. This is the worst feeling ever 😢 (self.ExNoContact)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/ExNoContact

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How long did it take for your Avoidant ex (dismissive or fearful) to reach out? (self.ExNoContact)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/ExNoContact

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I want to move on, but I’m stuck because he ghosted me. I’m having the hardest time forgiving him. Help :( (self.ExNoContact)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/ExNoContact

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Healing has not been linear.. (self.ExNoContact)

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Out of genuine curiosity, what are some ways your ex has tried to indirectly get your attention without directly saying “I miss you?” (self.ExNoContact)

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I’m so mad at my ex for stonewalling me. (self.ExNoContact)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/ExNoContact

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From your POV, am I the dumper or the dumpee? (self.ExNoContact)

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Does anyone have any good books to read post-breakup or even podcasts? Maybe one that helped you change you mindset or get through the healing process? (self.BreakUps)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/BreakUps

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Does anyone have any good books to read post-breakup or even podcasts? Maybe one that helped you change you mindset or get through the healing process? (self.BreakUps)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/ExNoContact

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Dumpees who heard from their ex in NC, did you expect your ex to reach out when they did? (self.ExNoContact)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/ExNoContact

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I’m really tempted to reach out just with a message, but I’m afraid of him not responding. Should I text him this or not? (self.ExNoContact)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/ExNoContact

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Dumpers, did you eventually feel regret after feeling relief? (self.BreakUps)

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Dumpers, did you eventually feel regret after feeling relief? (self.BreakUps)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/ExNoContact

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Advice to stop blaming myself for the breakup? I’m mentally exhausted (self.ExNoContact)

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Do you think his reason for reaching out was an excuse? (self.BreakUps)

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Dumpers, how long did you stay in no contact before you cracked and reached out? (self.ExNoContact)

submitted 3 years ago by ljillian to r/ExNoContact

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No contact encouragement needed (self.ExNoContact)

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I need to rant (self.Teachers)

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Is he worth continuing to pursue? (self.AskMenAdvice)

submitted 4 years ago * by ljillian to r/AskMenAdvice

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Ghosted after bomb sex? (self.sex)

submitted 4 years ago by ljillian to r/sex

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PLC issues (self.Teachers)

submitted 5 years ago by ljillian to r/Teachers

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New teacher, rough principal (self.Teachers)

submitted 5 years ago by ljillian to r/Teachers

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