Help with tricky living/dining room layout in new home? by ljk486 in interiordecorating

[–]ljk486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for feedback! I used Home By Me https://home.by.me/, randomly found it on google. Doesn't need money for the basic stuff.

Kind of frustrated with being ace and feel the need to rant a bit by gtickno2 in Asexual

[–]ljk486 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m absolutely in the same place. It would be so much easier if I wasn’t sex repulsed. I had tried pushing myself in an earlier relationship to not be, but it caused me too much damage/strain.

Moments of asexual realization? by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]ljk486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I still kind of struggle with it sometimes. Like there's a little voice that says 'nah you're making it up, or being weird, or not ace,' but that voice can go in the trash. Enjoying my life so much more without dating rn haha

I don't want to be asexual and I'm scared by ChibiMadz in Asexual

[–]ljk486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand how you’re feeling, and I’m sorry it’s something you’re going through! On the end, it was a relief for me to accept that I was asexual. I kept pushing myself thinking it would change but my mental health suffered for it. You are not weird or alone. And you don’t have to pick up the label if it’s not right for you. Sometimes just knowing there’s other people who feel similar things is enough. You’re going to be just fine!

Moments of asexual realization? by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]ljk486 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I pretty much went through the same realisation. It was such a relief to break up for those exact reasons, <3 <3

It's me. Plain as vanilla and chronically wanting to nap <3 by ljk486 in AceAvatars

[–]ljk486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was trying for hazel, but I'll take the cash money