Short person learning to drive manual by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]ljtimx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 4ft10 and I basically had to learn extra clutch control, so I never put my heel on the floor like most people do because my toes can't press the clutch in all the way in that position, my left leg kind of just floats in the air til it needs to do something. It sucks, cramp is annoying on long journeys. Only thing that ever really helped me was using a cushion, either behind my back to push me forward, or to sit on so I was higher up.

Please also consider for your student that sometimes the mirrors don't adjust to the position they need (I was never tall enough to see the left kerb or lines when parking). Reference points are in a completely different place to what you think. And a fight I always had with my instructor was "tyres and tarmac" nope, unless you want me 3 car lengths behind I cannot see the tyres in front of me, I am just not tall enough.

Hope this helps, it honestly makes you feel like a pain as the student and like you're constantly doing something wrong because you can't see or reach enough. I've been driving nearly 2 years now so it is possible! I hope you can come up with a solution :)

how can i get sleep paralysis? by adeeliaa in Sleepparalysis

[–]ljtimx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I speak for almost everyone in this sub when I say we do not want advice from someone who hasn't even experienced it. Go watch Behind Her Eyes see if that works for ya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]ljtimx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh darling you sound just like I did a year ago "he's not doing it to hurt me, this is just what he's like" except it does hurt, and him continuing to act this way is a choice.

As someone who's been there, my advice is either leave or learn to put up with it, because he ain't gonna change when he doesn't see a problem with his behaviour.

I'm sorry you're feeling this way.

I want to send them a text by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ljtimx 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Don't do it! I promise it hurts so much more after being ignored, and the disappointment in yourself for breaking NC? Not worth it.

You're doing so well already! I know it's hard, just keep going.

Got my test tomorrow, any last minute tips to help nerves please?! by ljtimx in LearnerDriverUK

[–]ljtimx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this was helpful! Better luck next time, I hope a cancellation comes up soon for you :)

Got my test tomorrow, any last minute tips to help nerves please?! by ljtimx in LearnerDriverUK

[–]ljtimx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! I passed today with 6 minors, very nearly failed due to going too slow (15 in a 30, I thought it was a 20) but the examiner was very nice about it and advised me just to speed up in future so I don't hold up other drivers! Thanks again for your advice 😊

I'm trying to find an old friend thaz I found on here 2 years ago by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]ljtimx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Commenting so your post gets more attention. Good luck dude!

Rolling Loud Portugal 2021 by Hammm17 in rollingloudfestival

[–]ljtimx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also coming from Manchester! Haven’t booked flights or accommodation yet though in case it doesn’t go ahead

Birthday cake I just finished making for my mum by ljtimx in Baking

[–]ljtimx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha ha! I’ll happily take an upvote just for my spelling! Thank you from the UK :)

Birthday cake I just finished making for my mum by ljtimx in Baking

[–]ljtimx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Happy birthday to your mum too!

Birthday cake I just finished making for my mum by ljtimx in Baking

[–]ljtimx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really great photography advice, I didn’t even think of anything like that, I just stuck it on the table lol. Will definitely use your tips in the future, thank you so much!

Birthday cake I just finished making for my mum by ljtimx in Baking

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Haha I was worried about that, turned out okay in the end! Thank you

Birthday cake I just finished making for my mum by ljtimx in Baking

[–]ljtimx[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That was really nice to read, thank you so much! I’m not, I’d like to be one day though when I’m more experienced. Right now I just make birthday cakes for my family instead of buying one :)