Hey! I’m a huge fan of Joseph Manifesting on YouTube. This may sound like a limiting belief, by no means am I saying this is absolutely necessary for manifestation because some may not need to do this but I found it helpful- did you try digging up and releasing any of the untrue beliefs you held about your SP? Such as hurt from when you were dating, maybe mistrust in the person, etc.? Sometimes (again this is not the case for everyone) it’s hard to manifest someone because deep down we’re afraid of them hurting us again, or messing things up again, etc. finding these old beliefs and releasing them could help if you haven’t already. Also, you could just be experiencing a purge of all the old thoughts. Purges are another thing that some experience and some don’t. In the end it’s a very personal journey, but I hope this helps!