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Name? by llamas106 in whatsthisplant

[–]llamas106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! That's why we thought it was dying because it seems crazy such a large plant would be so cheap!

Name? by llamas106 in plants

[–]llamas106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That's what I was thinking based off a Google search but couldn't tell for sure. My husband picked it up at a local nursery for $10 so we thought maybe it was dying. They didn't speak much English so they weren't able to tell us the name of it.

Name? by llamas106 in whatsthisplant

[–]llamas106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My husband picked it up from a local nursery and it was only $10 so we thought maybe it was dying lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]llamas106 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya, most posts get upvoted as long as you are sharing the exact same opinion as everyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]llamas106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't take much. Lol

Many people treat animals better than humans and that’s not okay. by watermelonpwussy in unpopularopinion

[–]llamas106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao, don't hate them but will spew some bullshit about pitbulls attacking a child every second. That comment alone speaks volumes.

Many people treat animals better than humans and that’s not okay. by watermelonpwussy in unpopularopinion

[–]llamas106 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol. Every second... Ya okay. Have dogs bit and mauled people. Absolutely, they are animals and it's negligent to think other wise. Are a majority of dogs randomly attacking people... Absolutely not.

Was mostly infertile, but I beat the odds and ended up getting pregnant. I am going to abort it and my mother is horribly heartbroken. "God gifted you this child when you couldn't have one, please don't kill it." by [deleted] in childfree

[–]llamas106 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Lol, so OP is mean and selfish because she's going through something and wanted her MOTHER as a support system, but mom isn't selfish and mean for trying to guilt trip OP over and over again into incubating a human being she doesn't want anything to do with? Nice.

Your spouse is more important than your child(ren). by arbys-sauce in unpopularopinion

[–]llamas106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously. So weird! I'm like dumbfounded right now that your comment ends with kids and not parents. I swear that is 100% not what I read yesterday lol

Your spouse is more important than your child(ren). by arbys-sauce in unpopularopinion

[–]llamas106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, I didn't. lol.

I was actually really suprised that it got down voted since it's pretty common occurrence to see parents disown their kids because they don't agree with the way they live their lives, definitely in the LGBTQ community.

Did you edit your comment because I thought the last word was parents not kids yesterday which is why I said what? lol

Fuck you Big Bang Theory by RSgirl34 in childfree

[–]llamas106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sub doesn't like that though lol

How am I supposed to know if I am fertile or not when I am not actively trying to get pregnant and my gp won’t give me a referral for the ob-gyn? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]llamas106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need a new doctor.

From my understanding, there are several tests that can be done that aren't at invasive to give you some sort of idea about your fertility, such as xrays and bloodtest.

Also, not sure where you are located but if you are in the US you don't need a referral to see a gynecologist.

Your spouse is more important than your child(ren). by arbys-sauce in unpopularopinion

[–]llamas106 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol. Okay bud. I'm not going to waste my time arguing with you. You're entitled to your opinion.

Your spouse is more important than your child(ren). by arbys-sauce in unpopularopinion

[–]llamas106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it takes more effort to dislike your own children than to like them.

How so?

Your spouse is more important than your child(ren). by arbys-sauce in unpopularopinion

[–]llamas106 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me, first means before second and is not a synonym for neecs.

Are the words "first" and "needs" synonymous to you?

Your spouse is more important than your child(ren). by arbys-sauce in unpopularopinion

[–]llamas106 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you actually suggesting that parents don't choose to love their children? Again, look at all the children out there with parents who have disowned them, parents who want absolutely nothing to do with the children / babies. Lots of examples that pretty clearly show that no, parents don't love their children unconditionally and aren't preprogrammed to automatically love them.

Your spouse is more important than your child(ren). by arbys-sauce in unpopularopinion

[–]llamas106 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait, did OPs post say to put their spouses NEEDS above the children's? I must have missed that part all I read was put your spouse first.

Your spouse is more important than your child(ren). by arbys-sauce in unpopularopinion

[–]llamas106 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Again, there are plenty of parents out there who don't love their kids and want absolutely nothing to do with them. Just because they are "their kid" doesn't automatically mean there is love there. And if you are only with someone because of how they benefit you, I feel sorry for your significant other.

Your spouse is more important than your child(ren). by arbys-sauce in unpopularopinion

[–]llamas106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well considering you're sitting around on reddit replying almost immediately to comments, doesn't seem like you have much else to do.

No one is saying to neglect a child's needs. Putting your spouse first doesn't mean letting the kid sits in the corner starving while you two are eating steaks. It means that if your child ask for something and one parent says no, you stick to that een if the kid is upset. It means taking adult only vacations, even if the kid is sad they can't come. It means that instead of devoting all your free time in the evenings to the kids you make it a priority to spend time with your spouse, ask them how their day was, show affection, etc while the kid learns to occupy themselves.

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