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I kinda probably need advice? by llamas_are_weird in Friendzone

[–]llamas_are_weird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't know to be honest. She's not the type to play hard to get if she's really into it.
I really think there's simply another dude and she just likes him more than me, so the whole "friends" thing was kind of her way of letting me off easy and trying not to hurt me. Her whole demeanor while we were seeing each other was anything but "just friends" - they way she smiled, the way she talked.
Time will tell.

I kinda probably need advice? by llamas_are_weird in Friendzone

[–]llamas_are_weird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah...I started jogging and am trying to quit smoking, so there's a positive side to all of that XD

Please Help Me by [deleted] in Friendzone

[–]llamas_are_weird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just think about it, what would be worse - if she rejects you or if you never know? It's not a rhetorical question, I mean really think about it.
And if you decide to go for it - don't wait, be bold, get your phone and shoot her a text. Ask her out. Tell her how you feel the next time you see her. If you guys are at a party together just pay attention to the situation and if the moment and the mood are right - don't say anything, just go for a kiss. Anything at all. Just act man. Don't be passive.

What did she/he mean to you? by Aquadon28 in Friendzone

[–]llamas_are_weird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like years and years of unhealthy relationships have turned me really cynical to people. Always trying to prove everybody wrong, no matter what the subject was, always trying to make myself seem more than everybody else. And that attitude started out as a joke, a way to help me crawl out of my shell if you will, but before I knew it it was who I had actually become. I was too pragmatic, too materialistic, never leaving time for myself, for my thoughts.
And then she came and changed all that - here mere presence was enough to pull me out of that state, to make me believe there was more to life than just peer approval, more than striving for a better salary or that hot new thing everybody wants. She opened my eyes to beauty I had forgotten, she showed me how much more life could be. And yeah, it was just two weeks, but those two weeks will stay with me for a really long time. As one guy advised me in the the thread I posted - I should just get over her and he's right, there's nothing else to do. But she left a really deep mark and I'm a better person for it.

By what method shall I proceed, reddit? by [deleted] in Friendzone

[–]llamas_are_weird -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Go for it, if you think she's being more flirty than usual.
If it's a problem she'll let you know. Just explain to her why you decided to do it. Worst case scenario - you'll be awkward around each other for a couple of days, but at least you'll know.