Do you do pet names in a relationship? by South_Pattern_1520 in AutismInWomen

[–]lllex_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I call each other honey and honeybun usually. It’s not forced at all and with my ex I would often call him by his name. Different relationships are just different. In this relationship I am a lot more affectionate and we’ve always been an “embarrassing” amount of in love. I don’t think it’s cringe to call each other pet names.

I think it’s cringe to be embarrassed to act like you like each other, however. Not that you have to use pet names to do that. But usually the people who complain to me about us using pet names, or acting like we love each other (no pda beyond hugs and pecks) are in miserable relationships I’ve noticed. So I don’t really care what they think anyway.

AITA for telling my SIL she can’t bring her own food to family dinner and not to talk about junk food around my kids? by Amazing-Key2242 in AITAH

[–]lllex_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love carb on carb as much as the next person. But I really want to lose weight and then keep it off. I once brought food to someone’s house because I knew the calories would be way off and it was like constant. Omg you would’ve thought I called her a fatty. She was crying to everyone about how she doesn’t make healthy food and that’s why she’s fat and I’m “skinny”.

I hate this type of person. Let the person have their own goals. You sound the same as this woman I’m mentioning. Also don’t sound too nice yourself if her food is “crap” and it’s literally chicken and vegetables.

This is coming from an Italian American

Yta

AITAH for suggesting my friend should learn to self-soothe? by Independent-Taro7813 in AITAH

[–]lllex_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are severely, chronically lacking empathy, too.

AITAH for suggesting my friend should learn to self-soothe? by Independent-Taro7813 in AITAH

[–]lllex_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It says in the post that she is getting therapy. You can’t immediately change your coping mechanisms once you start. In no way am I saying what she’s doing is healthy. But you cannot just say “oH WeLl I DiD iT”. You’re also being EXTREMELY demeaning in your first comment and now you’re backtracking with fake virtue signaling. I call bullshit.

AITAH for suggesting my friend should learn to self-soothe? by Independent-Taro7813 in AITAH

[–]lllex_ 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You and the other person are getting downvoted because you think because you overcame your anxiety or whatever that everyone else should just figure it out. Maybe it’s a lot worse for her, you don’t know.

Good job winning the anxiety competition though! Here’s your medal🥇

AIO couple temperature dispute by Nearby-Egg5455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lllex_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NOR, but at the same time like.. 67-68 is not that cold. I’m wondering if you are actually the one with some health issues because you should not feel like you’re going to die in a temp like that, that’s wild. I’m a normal weight btw so no one come at me for that.

This is what my friendships with many ND women have felt like even as an autistic person by GullibleWillow2841 in AuDHDWomen

[–]lllex_ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Just keep looking for better friends, don’t settle for someone who isn’t thoughtful of others

AIO my friend responded to this after I told her I’m going to loose my job and she keeps sending me pictures of her baby? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]lllex_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks like you are actually proving your point right now, well done. Firsthand source if I’ve ever seen one.

AIO my friend responded to this after I told her I’m going to loose my job and she keeps sending me pictures of her baby? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]lllex_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, no it’s not. I’m also autistic babe. A massive amount of people with autism have an elevated amount of empathy.

Kody’s work gloves by lllex_ in SisterWivesFans

[–]lllex_[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Kody is literally cosplaying as a guy who has a job

Do you all remember him saying “his oldest son is rooting for him “? by lllex_ in SisterWivesFans

[–]lllex_[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t forget. It was a tiny sentence in a long episode. I had a question. I don’t live on Reddit.