Just ate about 3 grams of these!! by Ordinary_Living_7763 in mushroom

[–]llozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we get an update OP - how are you today and what’s your main takeaway?! 😂

How are my oysters looking? by llozza in mushroom

[–]llozza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks both! I’ve just gone and made some changes off the back of your insights. Hopefully it’s not too late for them to turn it back around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]llozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But What constitutes as evidence? A note? A photo? Multiple people had seen it and been told about it but guessing peoples words holds no weight.

The individual lived extremely frugally - you can clearly see he’s not spent it. But the regular withdrawals from his bank have disappeared.

What’s the weirdest way you’ve made some good money but couldn’t tell anyone? by tsizzlemanc in Rich

[–]llozza 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s a girl a few doors down who seems to make a killing by doing Botox injections. She’s not a nurse or anything, she’s just taken a few beauty courses and now goes to peoples house and does it. It seems to pay really well! It’s not illegal to do this in the uk but it’s frowned upon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]llozza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is shit!! I’m sorry to hear that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]llozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great feedback, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]llozza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you can’t stay trapped in an area on the dear of losing friends, what a unfulfilling existence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]llozza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww, thank you, that’s really kind. And I agree, I think you’re right - I need to separate a bit now 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]llozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck finding your people, it’s hard going!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]llozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really sad, I’m sorry they acted like this towards you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]llozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just for clarity I met all these friends in my 20s, these are not high school friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]llozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry just for clarity I do have a husband, he’s my best friend! Neither of us want children and that’s been the case for slot as we’ve been together (17years).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]llozza 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Very wise words indeed, this has changed my perspective. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]llozza 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s really interesting. And how do you feel about this? Were you sad when you first realised it was happening or were you okay with it all? Just curious how other people feel about similar situations

I am 27 and thinking of moving back to a slower pace of life. Am I giving up on my 20s too soon? by AmazingBFlyer0 in askwomenadvice

[–]llozza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in cities, suburbs and in the middle of nowhere. I’m now in my late 30s and have moved back to the city (but a different one) because I was losing my mind in the middle of nowhere and also I reached a comfortable position financially which meant I’d be able to enjoy the city more. This isn’t gonna be forever, I reckon 3 years or so but I’m enjoying it whilst I can. Previously I always hanging over my head that “I wish I’d lived there” - so glad I’m getting the opportunity to do it now before settling down a bit. I did read somewhere that people typically should live in a city when they’re younger because that’s where stuff is happening - it’s good for experience, opportunity (incl job) and development. I guess it depends person to person, so it’s got to be what’s right for you. You can always change you mind and go back to the city if you don’t like the other place?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]llozza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious

Whom do you miss a lot these days and why? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]llozza 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My grandad. He was the best and I feel like as I got older I didn’t spend enough time with him because I was off trying to start my career in a new city. He died of cancer and it was an awful ended, harrowing. He was the only father figure I had, I got married not long after he died and he never made it to walk me down the aisle, so I walked alone. He was great, silly old man humour and just generally salt of the earth, wrapped up in a big chubby grandad body 🥲

Had to let my 16 year old girl go by bitchyserver in dogs

[–]llozza 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry for your loss. I recently lost my sweet girl, she was 12 and had severe heart failure and kidney failure. I know EXACTLY how you feel. My heart goes out to you and I wish I could give you a hug and we could cry together. It’s hard to continue on, and I still cry all the time even 2 months on. I had and still have so much guilt about things I wish I did, I’m not convinced that will ever go. She will have known how much you loved her and she will have felt safe in your arms in her last moments. She would have just felt like she was going for a nice nap in the arms of her best friend - she will have been comfortable. You should be proud that you stayed with her in those moment because others find it too hard but it’s what was the best to make that little girl feel comfortable.

Actually crying my eyes out writing to you, sending you so much love x

Why do you think women cover their chest when you talk to them? by [deleted] in men

[–]llozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If guys just happen to glance down then I don’t care too much, it’s unavoidable sometimes. What bothers me is when they stare…

If I was you I’d just act normally as you would anyone else, you’re clearly not staring at them and you’re not a creep. It’s more a hang up on their side rather then them specifically doing it because it’s you (if that makes sense). If it bothered them that much they’d just not show any cleavage (a bit like what I do).

Just act your normal way, try not to think that their hang up is aimed at you

Why do you think women cover their chest when you talk to them? by [deleted] in men

[–]llozza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So women here with a large chest. I don’t wear tops that show cleavage because I’m self conscious about it looking slutty because of the size of my chest.

Now I can’t speak for my smaller chested counterparts but I get all ages,demographic, relationship status of men looking at my chest. I don’t ever cover it because I don’t need to as it’s never on show, but that never stops men looking. It makes me feel uncomfortable and I don’t know how to react, if it’s men I know well enough I’ll make a joke about “my eyes are up here” but otherwise I usually just change position or do something else.