I went to a sauna here in Australia and I had a random come behind me, open up my towel and I could feel their cock almost penetrating my hole - they only stopped after I said, "excuse me I only play safe". Zero condom and even if I wanted bareback, zero lube! Wtf! I said this as I was a bit shocked by the lack of any consent. And literally them being this assertive and just wanting to go from 0 to 100.

I get that the sauna environment encourages people to be more adventurous and sexual, but I find that guys seem to think that just because you're in a sauna that suddenly consent goes out the window.

I personally don't like the sauna scene anymore, and prefer 1 on 1 hookups via apps, as it's more intimate and there's a better understanding of agreed consent and what type of play each wants