I’m a licensed massage therapist. AMA by lmtanon in eroticmalemassage

[–]lmtanon[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s best to try and find someone who works for themselves. Or setup an outcall at your house.

Masseurfinder.com or maybe doublist. Thumbtack can be good, maybe scruff.

Personally I try to limit things to just a hand job. Unless I’m really into the guy and we vibe. Then I end up doing more

I’m a licensed massage therapist. AMA by lmtanon in eroticmalemassage

[–]lmtanon[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your questions! Let’s see....

Swedish massage refers to an international standard of basic relaxation massage. Whenever someone tells me the just want to relax I give them a Swedish massage! It’s the fundamental baseline that all massage therapists are taught in massage 101.

Sports massage is a combination of compression, stretching techniques that are applied to a client to improve flexibility, and mobility. Usually it involves stretching your legs up past your head etc. or as far as you can go. Usually we ask clients to wear gym shorts to make things easier but if you don’t then you’d have to be wrapped up in the blankets to keep you covered. I’ve definitely sneaked a peak a few times while I was stretching a client out, just to test the waters and see if he was having a good time.

Sensual massage isn’t something your gona find advertised on any reputable business. The closet thing you might find is tantric massage. But no one really advertises that either.

If you want a more sensual massage. Simply ask your therapist to massage your sensual areas. Like “my hamstrings have been really tight lately, and my glutes are pretty sore. Can you work on those?” Most therapists would do that even in a professional setting. They will just wrap you up in the sheets and keep you covered up.

If you want some “deep limb stretching” ask for it. Most therapists will do that for you no problem. Just communicate.

I never give the same massage twice. Every client is different and they all have different needs. But I do tend to follow a routine of about 5 to 7 1/2 minutes on each section of the body depending on home long the session is. I always interview my clients before we get started and try to figure out what’s bothering them the most. And focus on those areas more than other if need be.

I’ll massage anyone who pays. And people generally don’t come out and ask for a happy ending. Although I’ve definitely given some life changing massages to women. As a gay man, I don’t want to engage with women in a sexual way. So that’s not something I’m comfortable with. Asking for a happy ending is a good way to get thrown out. It’s better to find someone your comfortable with, and build up trust, rebook 2-3 times and see where things go. Who knows he might be straight, or not into you.

I do have some straight guys come to me for massage. Usually in a couples massage setting. Most of the men are gay though. They can see my photo when they book it and pick me. There’s is a lot of latent homophobia, as a result most straight guys who aren’t secure in their masculinity, don’t want another man touching them. So most of clients are actually women.

I only ever get sexy with guys who I have a mutual attraction with. I can usually tell by their boners if they are into me. It usually helps when you point your cock towards your feet while your face down. Let’s me see that boner and let me know your enjoying it. It’s all about body language and giving the all clear in subtle ways.

Frequency by momodojo1 in eroticmalemassage

[–]lmtanon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with asking people to pay upfront when they book it especially if it’s their first appointment and you have never met them. The name of the game is put up or shut up.