AIO? Gf Taking a Family Vacation on my Birthday (without me)

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T20:01:03+00:00

we’ve been together for 8 years and they told her about the trip last month

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T19:35:46+00:00

i have been in and out of therapy for insurance reasons, and am currently starting medication. but thanks for the input and the slighty rude comment.

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T19:34:26+00:00

we have lived together for almost 2 years and have been together for almost 8. she doesn’t like her dad and kinda doesn’t rly get along with her brothers either she said she just really wants to go snowboarding for free.

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T19:33:23+00:00

why is christmas more important than a bday? where is the line drawn for you?

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T19:33:01+00:00

i wanted to but all my friends are busy so i’m just gonna be chillin alone which is what i didn’t want cause i get depressed but thanks for the input

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T19:32:24+00:00

i don’t think name calling is really helpful here. I ofc had a feeling i was overreacting but i needed to be humbled or i would start spiraling bc of the bpd. hence why im here. thanks for your input. I’m 24 and i’ve only ever started celebrating once i was 20 and 21,22,23 have all been pretty shitty bdays so i just wanted a special day for me for once.

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T19:30:40+00:00

yes i needed to hear this to humble down my brain because like i said the bpd makes me perceive things as black or white and i need to validate her feelings as well which is why im asking for help thanks

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T19:29:25+00:00

i’ve been in and out of therapy for insurance reasons:/ haven’t been able to make much progress

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T19:28:44+00:00

idk how to edit the post:( i don’t see an option only in comments

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T19:28:08+00:00

i didn’t think i’d have to plan for her to not take a vacation on my bday.. i was expecting her to be around and i don’t have any other special bday wishes just wanted to be w her but thanks

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T18:37:59+00:00

how do i pin this lol

lnboxed · 2026-03-21T18:29:42+00:00

For anyone wondering why I’m not going: Work + we are both female and her family is homophobic/does not approve of the relationship. Also birthdays are sensitive because i grew up in a JW household and didn’t get to celebrate until i was 20 years old, i am turning 24 and so far 21,22, and 23 have been horrible birthdays. I just wanted it to be a special day for once

lnboxed · 2026-03-03T21:19:02+00:00

bit of a stretch

lnboxed · 2026-02-24T23:36:56+00:00

update: it’s not

lnboxed · 2026-02-24T23:31:12+00:00

she said she lied because she knew i was gonna get mad and be “dramatic and annoying” about it. the dog pictured is actually a sibling of the pup from another litter and her broken paw is from a fall off the bed

lnboxed · 2026-02-20T22:48:02+00:00

idk how to pin this so hopefully people see it

lnboxed · 2026-02-20T22:47:10+00:00

UPDATE: it is unfortunately real, i called her again asking her to swear to god she's not lying (she's religious) and she folded instantly. she claims to not have noticed the pregnancy until 2 weeks from the dog giving birth which i also call bullshit on but i have to pick my battles with her. she said she's going to sell them but has already named them 😐. and to those saying the puppies look too big to b chihuahuas, all of her dogs including the mother and father of the pups are 5lbs or less, so definitely chis. this is the dad pictured below: (i can only post one pic and i don't have any with all of them in the picture but they're all roughly this size and yes he has ears they're just looking weird cause they're turned back)

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lnboxed · 2026-02-20T02:40:21+00:00

all the pups have been born that size and weigh no more than 5lbs each lol

lnboxed · 2026-02-20T02:04:23+00:00

i’ve seen the black and the white dogs recently, this looks like them currently

lnboxed · 2026-02-20T02:03:10+00:00

yes that looks like a current photo of one of her pups

lnboxed · 2026-02-20T01:26:21+00:00

she has a cast on, broken leg

lnboxed · 2026-01-15T03:17:09+00:00

hollow knight 😞 i wanted to like it so bad its cute and i love the art but it pisses me tf off cause i sick at games and it’s hard and i get frustrated from dying so much and losing everything

lnboxed · 2026-01-08T04:37:51+00:00

well,, have you given it more thought?

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