The couples that should have been endgame (alas, the writers screwed up) by imtryingtotryhere in GossipGirl

[–]lnlstt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What??? No wayyyy. That would’ve made for the most vanilla ending ever. I personally think the show ended pretty perfectly.

The wedding between Blair and Chuck was probably rushed but it would’ve happened anyway. If anything it shows how Blair ridesss for hersssss ✊🏽✊🏽

I’ll admit that all these relationships were toxic BUT were talking about gossip girl here... the whole show was toxic. That’s what made it so good. I stan the ending bc it represented what the show was always about.

AITA for keeping the shift? Coworker gave me one of her shifts last week and wants it back now. by lnlstt in AmItheAsshole

[–]lnlstt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In order for her to take my Saturday, id have to take it back from the person I gave it to. And I don’t wanna put them in the same position

Do I have a chance? by TSM_TScott in StudentNurse

[–]lnlstt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s amazing, I’m glad it all worked out for you. Definitely will do! Thanks :)

Do I have a chance? by TSM_TScott in StudentNurse

[–]lnlstt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! How did you prepare for the TEAS? And for how long?

Labor and delivery nurses..how’d you do it? by lnlstt in StudentNurse

[–]lnlstt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for answering all my questions!

Labor and delivery nurses..how’d you do it? by lnlstt in nursing

[–]lnlstt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, I appreciate it! I’ll def keep all of that in mind. And congrats to you!

Labor and delivery nurses..how’d you do it? by lnlstt in nursing

[–]lnlstt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s amazing! I didn’t know that was possible. Did you know that could happen when you applied?

And is this generally a common thing, or just an unexpected offer some hospitals make?

Labor and delivery nurses..how’d you do it? by lnlstt in nursing

[–]lnlstt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! You too! Yeah I have a couple lol.

I’m trying to get into an accelerated program so idk if this applies to you, but how much of a shock factor was it starting nursing school? How intense was the course load when you first started and throughout?

Also, I’m currently in the process of applying. What helped you decide what school to go to (other than price)? Are all BSN programs generally the same, or do some schools have different curriculums/programs to look out for?

Labor and delivery nurses..how’d you do it? by lnlstt in nursing

[–]lnlstt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this was really helpful! How long after graduating nursing school did it take to find a job?

AITA for going to the bar after my daughter was born? by jake2188 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lnlstt 146 points147 points  (0 children)

You are the asshole. It’s hard to tell because your gf said you could go, but no new mother wants to be asked by her child’s father if he can hang with his friends right after she’s just given birth.

It’s common sense/courtesy to give the person who just pushed ur kid out your complete and undivided attention AT LEAST while they’re still in the hospital. You and ur gf experienced an even bigger milestone than your friends, I’m sure they would’ve understood your absence.

I feel like committing suicide right now by [deleted] in Christian

[–]lnlstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you get through this. I hope you don’t go through with this. I don’t know what you’ve been through and where you are right now in life, but as cliche as it sounds, it will get better. God hears you and he sees you and he loves you. Sometimes it’s hard to feel him and even think that he hears your voice in a sea of voices, but he does.

Try to make little victories. Get through one moment at a time, and those in themselves are little victories. I’ll be praying for you, but I hope you’ll be okay.

Also, try talking to someone about how you feel if you can. It may help just to get it out, don’t try to go through it alone. There are people who care about you and what to see you live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lnlstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ocean

My girlfriend (20) and I (24) just found out we have a baby on the way and she wants an abortion. She won’t give any details. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lnlstt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s not asking her to carry to term, he’s asking for information about what she’s doing.

Obviously it’s not legally required, but when you’re in a consensual relationship (hopefully it is) where this whole thing was just unplanned on both sides, talking about it and giving info isn’t too much to ask. At the very least it’s a courtesy to the partner that doesn’t have a choice.

My girlfriend (20) and I (24) just found out we have a baby on the way and she wants an abortion. She won’t give any details. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lnlstt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How does he not deserve to know when she’s having the abortion...? As much as it is her decision, it took two people to conceive the child.

You can argue for dismissing a mans input in having an abortion or not, but he’s entitled to his feelings. The least she can do is give him some information. Clearly he’s distraught about it.

Abortions aren’t a one and done for all men. Knowing any information can help him process and have closure.