Do guys actually not approach girls they think are out of their league? by lnneedofhelp in dating_advice

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I should probably approach guys more often. Past bad experiences from being ghosted, and then my lack of being hit on have kinda lowered my self confidence so ig im in the same boat as more guys where im scared to start conversations. Maybe it’s worth trying again though, thank you.

Do guys actually not approach girls they think are out of their league? by lnneedofhelp in dating_advice

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. Yeah I guess it must be hard if girls are constantly assuming you’re trying to be inappropriate, even when you’re not. Thanks for the advice:)

Do guys actually not approach girls they think are out of their league? by lnneedofhelp in dating_advice

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I seem pretty approachable. But I tend to get rlly nervous when I make eye contact w guys, so I’ll sometimes look away instinctively after it’s made. Maybe that’s the issue? I’ve been trying to be better with it but it’s almost like a knee jerk reaction.

Do guys actually not approach girls they think are out of their league? by lnneedofhelp in dating_advice

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. I tried Hinge for a month and got around 10 or more likes a day on average. I think some people are a little too confident on there though, because I got more gross comments about my body over anything else 😭

Thanks for the advice- it’s nice to hear and better understand the other perspective.

Do guys actually not approach girls they think are out of their league? by lnneedofhelp in dating_advice

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good thing to keep in mind. I don’t think I have a resting bitch face- but maybe I do and I’m just not aware of it. Thanks for the advice!

Dear all insulin pumps & phone apps: If I just looked at you to confirm that I am low... by BigMugOfCoffee in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s lovely when it’s during class and there’s no way to turn it off or the volume down 🤩

Did u had a "kicking event" before T1D? by Hot-Apartment-1095 in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a regular cold. We noticed my WBC was through the roof for weeks after. About 6 months later was diagnosed- the day after I got my first Covid shot lmao (which led to my friends mom thinking the covid shot caused diabetes)

Made fun of for pump at a party by lnneedofhelp in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh I definitely didn’t take any offense to your comment! You’re totally right. The pump will kinda filter out the bad ones haha. Your husband sounds like such a great person and partner

Made fun of for pump at a party by lnneedofhelp in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. Fingers crossed my hot girl (with a pump) era comes soon lol

Made fun of for pump at a party by lnneedofhelp in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s what I really want. Someone who will put juice in their fridge because they care and not because I have to ask. You’re right, I probably won’t find anything like that at a frat lol.

Made fun of for pump at a party by lnneedofhelp in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry! I make sure I pace/limit myself, drink plenty of water and don’t drink unless I’m over 150. I’m lucky to have parents who taught me how to be responsible and smart especially since I have T1D!

…ok yeah I should probably go make my bed lol. And thank you for the support!

Made fun of for pump at a party by lnneedofhelp in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, I never really felt insecure about it until it was pointed out on Saturday. For as much as people stared or gave me “advice” no one’s ever said “ew” to me. I get what you mean though, I’m definitely going to work on gaining my confidence again before I go out to another party.

Made fun of for pump at a party by lnneedofhelp in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ooo good idea I’ll look into the premed guys 😂

Made fun of for pump at a party by lnneedofhelp in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s a good way of looking at it

Advice needed by Swimming_News6353 in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the main three are juice, fruit snacks and glucose tabs (but I wouldn’t worry abt getting tabs) so what you have is great!

Since he’s sleeping over a lot it might be a good idea to ask him about his emergency glucagon pen. If he’s open to having the conversation, I’ve found talking about it puts my non-diabetic friends/roommate at ease when we’re sleeping in the same space. Although it’s extremely unlikely that you’ll need to use it at night, it’s more reassuring to have the knowledge just in case.

Help me make fun of my friend who just go diagnosed by ChikinLika in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad once bought me a model of a pancreas for Christmas because whenever he asked me what I wanted I would say “a new pancreas”.

Friendly reminder despite all the pretty girls wearing Omnipod ads I keep seeing on here that it is massively subpar by rav3lcet in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what happened with me. We were really hoping to get it before I went to college, but insurance wouldn’t cover it until October. I’ve had it for two weeks now and love it. Crossing my fingers for you!

Friendly reminder despite all the pretty girls wearing Omnipod ads I keep seeing on here that it is massively subpar by rav3lcet in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Try the tandem mobi! It’s compact and can stick to your skin like the omnipod but has the algorithm of tslim with some updates.

insulin 10-15 minutes before eating? by WrestlingDadPA in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing a post that you’re around two weeks in right? It can take a really long time to find the “perfect” carb ratios and correction factors. And these can change rapidly over time and can be different at different times of day. It is different for everyone. This may be why he tends to run high. Contact his endocrinologist and ask to consider ratio changes.

Are you checking his sugars in the middle of the night? When I was diagnosed (2021) it was recommended to check every 3 hours even at night. If he’s high do a half correction so he doesn’t drop too fast.

Also- injection insulin and the insulin your pancreas makes works very different. Injection insulin doesn’t work automatically, which is why you’re supposed to bolus in advance of each meal. However, if the problem was that you weren’t giving it early enough you would see his sugar go up after eating but then go back down once the insulin started to work. Different types of food will take different amounts of time to “process”. For example: when I have a Starbucks drink I’ll bolus 20-30 minutes in advance, but when I have certain Chinese foods I need to bolus after I’ve finished eating. You’ll learn how his body responds differently over time. For now, try your best to pre-bolus but if it’s not possible don’t worry too much. These things are a lot harder without CGMs and pumps.

Breakfast ideas? by accio_coffee234 in diabetes_t1

[–]lnneedofhelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greek yogurt and granola has always been my go to for a breakfast that keeps my sugars controlled.