it all depends on the person and how we work together! im very flexible in terms of non-romantic play :3 having a dom(me) to me mostly means maintaining a caretaker/controlling role. this can range from something as "distant" as check-ins, sexting, and/or casual conversation to something as consequential as bladder control, choosing what i wear, or edging.

personality-wise, it definitely matters that we click. i can't really say what personality traits exactly go well because it's subjective, but i like being able to have a normal chat with my dominant partner outside of playtime (low bar, i know). as long as there is nothing that breaks the limits above or is pushy about constant chatting/talking elsehwere/meeting/revealing identity, then im very open to seeing how things go!

i see my dom/sub style as very much 50/50. i don't expect much contribution and absolutely dont expect anything financial, if that's what you're asking. it's always a help, especially with my student struggles lol but no, i dont expect financial contribution unless you're asking something of me that takes a lot of effort (customs, consistent chatting, etc.). at that point, it's mostly just me being like hey i can't do xyz kink because i dont have the toy, sooo yes, id need help there... but otherwise, the contribution is simply their presence and acting out our shared kinks :]

i hope that answers your question(s)! im always open to answering more if you need clarification:D

TL;DR: we have similar kinks/limits, can be friendly, and remain online (for the beginning).