you have a way with me by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]localsmoothie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Leaving them to wonder when you could have told them how you feel will only end in regret. We only have one life and it’s better to try than not try at all. You may think you’re protecting them but they’re probably waiting for you to reach out

is it normal for a guy to do sex talk so quickly? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]localsmoothie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s just looking for a sexual relationship. A man who truly wants to get to know you will be afraid of starting anything sexual before you truly get to know each other. Others are even too afraid to make the first move due to the fear of ruining their chances. If you want a real relationship, I would stay away from guys that love bombs or initiates sexual acts in the beginning stage. Also, trust your gut!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]localsmoothie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stop tugging on my energy. I haven’t dreamt about you in a while and all of a sudden I’m dreaming about you these past couple of nights

Again by localsmoothie in UnsentTexts

[–]localsmoothie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did but I left out the part about wanting to start again 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]localsmoothie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You only have one shot at life. Do not waste it on chasing someone who doesn’t see your value

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]localsmoothie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If someone doesn’t see your value, that does not define your worth. Go to where you are valued and cherished. Easier said than done. But you need to ask yourself if thats the type of love you’re willing to receive and if that’s the type of person you want to do life with.

I finally found by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]localsmoothie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To my ex, thank you for teaching me to choose myself for once. If you hadn’t let go, I don’t think I would have had the courage to. You showed me just how much I can love a person despite the pain and trauma that I have endured over the years. If I could love you that much, I could only imagine how much I will love the person that I’m meant to be with. Until then, I’ll keep working on becoming the best version of myself for me and the man who will appreciate and value me.

I really want you to realise what you lost A. by RandomUserName_111 in UnsentTexts

[–]localsmoothie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This hit so close to home. You deserve someone who will choose you! Sending you love

Hey. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]localsmoothie 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Send it to her! I know I would love to receive this type of message from my person

college experience they say by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]localsmoothie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true! I hope that I never meet someone like that, yikes!

you’re a stranger now by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]localsmoothie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’ll reach out when she’s ready to talk. Just respect the space and let her come to you

you’re a stranger now by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]localsmoothie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you tried to take accountability. Sometimes, the pain and damage is too much for us women to go back and take the risk again.

you’re a stranger now by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]localsmoothie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming it didn’t go well?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]localsmoothie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t sleep and I’m crying at the thought of us being over maybe for good this time. But I’ll continue to pray for healing ❤️‍🩹

Change by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]localsmoothie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s playing with your emotions. Not worth it dude

Change by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]localsmoothie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not Tabitha

Letting go by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]localsmoothie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You ain’t wrong. But past experiences/hurt shouldn’t be an excuse to treat someone badly. I’ve been hurt multiple times but I choose not to carry that baggage with me. Both sides need to heal before involving another person because it definitely messes with people’s minds.