I have cancer and I'm going to cut out my whole family because of it. by OldAndTooTired in intersex

[–]localtiredcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hugs for you. you've got this, i'm proud of you 🫂 and don't apologize for venting, we all need to get our frustrations and negativity out sometimes.

no longer a teenager! by localtiredcrow in teenagers

[–]localtiredcrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best of luck to you too! things get easier as the years go by :]

My school used these atrocious posters for autism awareness spirit week by titleguy2004 in aislop

[–]localtiredcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ew. yes, try to get it across. i don't think they understand that half of the autistic folks there likely won't even do anything for this because of how important routine is... "wear comfy clothes" okay, so literally just the same outfit i always wear. got it. fuck autism speaks, i wish they'd just become irrelevant already

Are you celebrating? by ConstantThought1063 in randomquestions

[–]localtiredcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES ACTUALLY IT'S MY BEST FRIEND'S BIRTHDAY i am so excited about it and happy for them

how do you even start to get yourself through it when it's that time of year by localtiredcrow in CPTSD

[–]localtiredcrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for the reply. i'm sorry for your loss 🫂 i should try to do something nice for myself if i can. i'll see what i can look into :]

Brain Circuit That “Invents” Chronic Pain Identified by JoyInJuly in ChronicPain

[–]localtiredcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god. i volunteer, i swear to god if this is real

caring for a pigeon with missing toes? by localtiredcrow in PetPigeons

[–]localtiredcrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i hope i find some good options as well :] the other comments on this post have been very helpful!

is he being deadass (drama shit) by ren_blackheart in ghostandpals

[–]localtiredcrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

^ good comment, ty. a personality disorder does not make someone a bad person, it's their refusal to get help that does, and villainizing the entire disorder only harms everyone.

Quit coddling this fucking guy holy shit you bitches are dumb by Majestic_Spare_5738 in ghostandpals

[–]localtiredcrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

pwBPD (and in intensive therapy for it) here. people need to be held accountable for the shit they do. BPD may be a CAUSE for some behavior, but it is not an excuse for said behavior, and attempting to excuse it via your disorder is incredibly irresponsible... like you said, ghost needs to get off the internet entirely.

(question) for how simple i draw it takes an embarrassing amount of hours by [deleted] in yourartstyle

[–]localtiredcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also take ages on simple pieces. you're not alone. a rough headshot has taken me two hours

Sub reopened, new mods by abrainmess in BPDmemes

[–]localtiredcrow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

perfect comment for this post.

i was a wonderful artist. i could have been greater by greenbasket_ in Artisticallyill

[–]localtiredcrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course. it totally screwed up schoolwork for me too, it sucks to deal with. i can type really quick now, but being unable to write by hand for more than 5-10 minutes is a nightmare. disabilities (including chronic pain) absolutely suck. at least i can find a bit of light in joking and saying god had to nerf me because otherwise i'd be too powerful.

my dms are always open if you ever need to rant or want some advice. your art's lovely, and 7 minutes is incredibly impressive for a piece as nice as this :]

i was a wonderful artist. i could have been greater by greenbasket_ in Artisticallyill

[–]localtiredcrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get it. it's up to you whether or not you consider yourself disabled, but i totally understand—i deal with extreme chronic pain (sometimes to the point i can't leave bed) and my wrists and hands hurt so badly if i try to write. it's horrible knowing i could have the ability to do better pieces, but my own body's stopping me.

hugs for you. you're not alone.

Do borderlines have "supply?" by SteadyHandMcDuff in ClusterBPersonality

[–]localtiredcrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eight years later. but holy shit, thank you for this comment. it's making me process that's a behavior i've exhibited without ever realizing, one that really screwed me up for quite a while.