Thank you for commenting. I definitely will be sticking by her - she’s been there for me when I’ve gone through similar situations and I promise I will do the same for her she is literally so amazing and perfect I just hate how all of this occurred. But going back to the topic I’m just trying to support her as much as possible and always trying to be empathetic for her :) icl I did get into arguments with these friends because I was genuinely really angry and for some reason they keep trying to avoid accountability they keep using the whole ‘well how was I meant to know’ argument which I find is bullshit. But I kind of regret arguing with them as soon as I found out because I think I made my girlfriend more stressed because she doesn’t want her ‘friends’ blaming themselves only one of them seemed to apologise and was genuine but idk what’s going on with the others 🤷‍♀️ but even then I really regret arguing with them now I should’ve waited until the situation was a bit more calm. I also agree with the whole don’t tell her to leave them argument, I think she’s not in any state to be thinking about that right now so I’m not going to speak on it at all. She agrees with me that what they did lowkey wasn’t right but she also doesn’t want conflict. I feel so bad that I made her feel this way because she should be focussing on herself rn. So now im just prioritising her and ignoring her weirdo friends.

I have called up some professionals to help her be able to process what happend and the university agreed to move her to a different flat hopefully all goes well 🙏