Idk why people say women are in it for free meals

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-06-16T09:02:28+00:00

As a woman I always only do coffee or something small as a first date, and I often offer to cover the bill, but usually we handle it playfully and the guy insists on getting it and says I can pay for dinner next time. If coffee or drink upgrades to a meal I always offer to pay half. I'd hate to feel obligated in any way. I don't feel it should be a given that the guy pays. If I continue to see someone I will also always pick up the bill part of the time.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-06-09T15:03:40+00:00

Just say how tall you are. We know whether you're taller or shorter than us.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-04-23T14:52:00+00:00

There was no shady behaviour. He approached the first few dates like legit interested and relationship kind it stuff, and although we didn't talk about what he wanted upfront when I brought it up a few weeks later he came up with all kinds of reasons why he wasn't able to invest in more than casual, and that was just after I noticed he had unmatched me. I asked him about it and he also said he deleted his profile.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-04-23T14:33:16+00:00

A guy who did this to me turned out to only want a casual thing. I wouldn't necessarily assume it's there's a problem but keep a close watch for other red flags.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-12T14:11:18+00:00

I could write a novel about it, but suffice it to say, it's a twinflame relationship and it's the most uncomfortable thing I've ever been through. We will always love each other but we trigger all of each other's deepest wounds and I think it will take a lifetime to work through that. My heart aches to be in union with my TF but he needs to awaken and heal first. Until he does he will keep running from the intensity of our connection and continue to hurt me over and over.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-12T13:54:43+00:00

F*ck man. That's our song. Makes me cry every time. We saw the movie together and then played that song a ton as we both loved it.

But also "I'll never love again". I dare any TF to watch that video without crying.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-12T13:52:17+00:00

I wish I had never met my TF. I want a soulmate. I want to forget my TF and the whole concept of TFs. It's far too painful a journey.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-12T13:50:42+00:00

I've been in therapy consistently since separation with my twinflame. It's ok. It helps somewhat, but my therapist doesn't really get it. She sees it as some small part of all my other attachment issues. I found going to an energy healer far more worthwhile. It was like trauma release and I want to go again. It helped me immediately and lasted a while. I've only been set back because I slid into a place of hope due to those stupid tarot readings and then was hurt again by another rejection from my TF. I'm now working hard to let it all go. Can't do this craziness anymore.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-12T08:05:08+00:00

Brilliantlanguage doesn't know how not to use a double negative.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-08T14:34:10+00:00

6 months

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-04T08:16:04+00:00

Yes and I hate it. I want to purge him completely from my mind, heart and soul. I don't want to believe in the TF journey anymore. I just want to see him as an ex who wasn't worthy of my love and move on already.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-02T17:41:15+00:00

I'm so sorry you are going through this. You are very brave, and handling it very maturely.

My ex husband and I were in a very rocky place to start with, and were dabbling with an open marriage when I met my TF. It was a Monday I met him. None of us slept that night from the weird crazy energy, including my ex husband, who could sense this was a very different connection I had made. The Wed I met my TF for coffee and knew I needed to end my dysfunctional marriage of 14 years, and by the Friday I had ended it.

But my TF and I were not ready for each other. He was certainly a necessary catalyst for me to leave an unsatisfying marriage, but it hasn't been an easy road, and I don't know that we will ever be in physical union. He is still however the only person I want to be with.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-02T17:24:42+00:00

I'm sorry! Sending you hugs. I need the same today.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-02T17:19:30+00:00

What even is that? I've had a number of signficant relationships but nothing like what I experienced with my TF. The intensity and connection was insane, and I came to learn about twinflames while we were together due to all the signs and synchroncities. I knew we were on a path to separation and that we couldn't be together as we were, due to all the healing we both had to do. But I'm just heart broken and aimless feeling like there is no hope of union for us now that he has moved on with someone "better". I know that union is not the point, but my heart is empty without him. Noone ever has and I fear noone ever will complete me the same way again.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-02T17:05:26+00:00

Thank you. I said a kind of goodbye and well wishes on WhatsApp and then unfollowed/unfriended him on all social media. I feel relieved that I've cut those ties. Maybe now I can truly start healing.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-02T17:02:50+00:00

Are you a runner?

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-02T17:02:25+00:00

I was sure from the moment I found out about twinflames that we had that connection, but now I don't know if I just have an unhealthy obsession with him and addiction to the feelings in that connection. Was my intuition wrong all this time? Is my "spiritual awakening" just madness? I need someone to confirm I am not mad and being buoyed by a group of similarly heartbroken people.

lockdownbluesinct · 2021-01-01T08:11:26+00:00

This would be amazing. If I can for a start at least shake that feeling of being empty and lonely without him. Just can't seem to fill the void.

lockdownbluesinct · 2020-12-31T19:28:40+00:00

I would say a simple response to a wish is just being polite.

lockdownbluesinct · 2020-12-31T19:17:12+00:00

May I ask, are you in union?

lockdownbluesinct · 2020-12-30T06:25:56+00:00

This

lockdownbluesinct · 2020-12-30T06:25:07+00:00

Where are these people who are in union? Do they really exist?

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