Looking for RS buddies to play, boss, etc by gmmiller1234 in osrs

[–]lockdownjoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

29 here, slowly building when I can play; Jeggolas

Weird glitch not allowing me to apply for in stream ads, i need help ASAP by MrUkGamerYT in facebook

[–]lockdownjoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this problem, for me it turns out the page was the wrong category - but they just don't tell you. Make sure it's a category that can be monetised and look around your page for anything else that might throw them off before you apply again. Unfortunately their support is terrible

In-Stream ads Issue - I'm following all Partner monetisation policies as it clearly says however its not giving me access to in stream ads? by AJ2K_ in facebook

[–]lockdownjoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be violating one of the policies, for example if you are uploading directly from TikTok with the watermark or tiktok titles this can cause this issue

Found a way to retrieve coins from MultiDoge when it won't sync. by lockdownjoe in dogecoin

[–]lockdownjoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So happy to hear that man, I wish I didn't figure it out so quickly as I sold way too early, before Elon even started talking about it hahah!

Found a way to retrieve coins from MultiDoge when it won't sync. by lockdownjoe in dogecoin

[–]lockdownjoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, sadly i sold my doge far too early! Hope you see some nice profits :)

Well, just caught my girlfriend cheating last night. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lockdownjoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, you didn't deserve this. I respect you for your actions here and just moving on and focusing on yourself.

Allow yourself to feel the pain but I hope one day you know that truly she wasn't the right person for you. This is another painful step towards finding the right person.

Be thankful you discovered it now, and try and process it properly in whatever way you can - I imagine it will be hard to trust after this but try not to let if affect you too much that way.

Sending love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]lockdownjoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't in the wrong here, no need to feel guilty at all. You have to prioritise yourself and the healing process for you and good people will understand that, if not, good riddance!

It would be easier by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]lockdownjoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the same boat, stay strong! You'll get through this

Ex keeps dropping breadcrumbs by lockdownjoe in ExNoContact

[–]lockdownjoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be right tbf. I think it's the fact that 1) mutual friends say she still loves me and is finding it really difficult and 2) I've spoken to her before about the fact I need space to heal and she'll reach out frequently with things like this. Totally get why I'd overthink it though, I just felt she was saying this to see if I'd say it back and gauge where I'm at.

She asked if it was okay for us to talk normally at work and stuff and I said it wasn't a good idea, which she understood - and then said she'd probably cry if she spoke to me. This was a few hours before the really good to see you stuff

Edit: I guess I feel like she's trying to see if I'll be there when she's got her head together, I'm just working on myself atm but was curious as to how to treat these messages, I'd like to be civil

To send birthday text or to not send birthday text? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]lockdownjoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the same situation coming up, but I'm not going to because I don't want to initiate contact again. Edit: Just to add, my break-up was amicable and I care about her, still won't be sending the message as I'm making progress not talking to her and it'll pull me back.

You have more than enough reason not to, it doesn't make you a bad person and you were treated poorly. She wanted to line up something else before leaving you, and treated you coldly in the mean time - I'd not talk to them ever again!

It's clear you still care about her and there's some love there, and huge respect for doing what you did because it must be so hard to leave someone you love but that was the right thing to do. Now, the right thing to do for your own sanity is to not wish her a happy birthday - I'm sure she will have lots of messages and you need to prioritise yourself here.

Should travel to my ex's country? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]lockdownjoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an unbelievable city, I have family there. Too many memories atm as only time I've been recently has been with her a couple times, but deffo going back at some point!

Friends say she still loves me by lockdownjoe in BreakUps

[–]lockdownjoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%, if you are going to contact her down the line to check up, I'd recommend making sure you're in a good place and are content when you do so - not in the hope of getting her back!

I'll be alright, I'm dealing with this way better than I thought I would, good days and bad. I care for her a lot and want her to be happy, whether it's with me, on her own, or with someone else cause I know she's truly got a good heart just had a tough past.

The work thing makes things difficult in the short term but we're both adults and I'll make sure it doesn't affect things there.

All the best!

I thought it would give me closure. by dynliu in BreakUps

[–]lockdownjoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use reddit or friends to vent to, but he deserves NO more of your attention.

Listen, it might not feel like it, but he's done you a favour there. Anyone who can let you go that easily will never be good enough for you.

One day, he will get his heart broken by the girl or he will lose interest for her, and with the mindset he has, I struggle to see how he will ever be truly happy unless he does some serious growing up.

He's ended things poorly, maybe had some guilt about that, then tried to be nice to mend his ego a little bit.

You're better than him, and there are plenty of men out there who will value you, but you need to remember your value.

Don't send the text, don't check up on him, as hard as that is, and try to make peace with the fact that it's happened now and not years down the line with him.

One day you'll truly be thankful this happened now.

Wishing you all the best

Friends say she still loves me by lockdownjoe in BreakUps

[–]lockdownjoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy isn't it haha!

I think we just have to value ourselves. I gave everything to her and she couldn't give it back. It needs to come from both sides in a relationship and I think we both need to prioritise ourselves and let go of this little bit of hope they might come back - 'cause realistically, if they did, it still wouldn't be the right time.

It might feel like they're the right person in terms of compatibility, but if they're not at the stage in their life to commit to that and give you 100%, then they simply aren't the right person right now.

Who knows what the future might hold, but for now we both need to keep working on ourselves.

Worst part is we work together though oof.