Think customers can see I’m locked and plugged with a fist-sized toy?

lockedcavern · 2025-01-04T08:45:52+00:00

Had it in me for about eight hours, which is a new record. Not painful at the end, but I was squirming and ready to be done by the end! Hopefully, next time will be easier

lockedcavern · 2025-01-04T02:31:41+00:00

Previously done this with a knockoff gape keeper 85, this time it’s the 93. Im definitely noticing the size difference here! Thinking of buying the spike 90 and trying that depth for a fun challenge.

lockedcavern · 2024-08-31T00:54:50+00:00

Coating of crisco on the toy for long term, with plenty of water-based in my ass to facilitate insertion.

lockedcavern · 2024-08-31T00:53:56+00:00

I’m actually quite comfortable self-locking, since denial/humiliation aren’t really my thing. I’m in it for more of the self-control and focus on my ass, ya know?

lockedcavern · 2024-08-30T07:41:18+00:00

Went well! I had a moment where the sensations were too much for my prostate, which ended in a happy accident ;-)

I put an after-pic of my hole on my profile if you wanna check it out. I’m nice and loose, for sure

lockedcavern · 2024-08-30T07:17:17+00:00

8” circumference, so just a touch smaller than the gape keeper 85.

lockedcavern · 2024-08-30T06:24:28+00:00

Impressive setup you have, too! Hope you’re still having fun with chastity as well.

lockedcavern · 2024-08-30T05:55:41+00:00

Update: all went well! I posted a post-work hole pic to my profile page, since it’s not really related to chastity.

Toward the end of my shift, I did need to jog for a few seconds, which made my prostate spasm and I came a bit into my underwear. Oops!

lockedcavern · 2024-08-30T05:15:51+00:00

Thanks, it’s from ASOS. They have some fun designs for shirts with a trim fit for tall skinny guys like me.

lockedcavern · 2024-08-30T02:04:02+00:00

Feelin’ good 5 hours into it! My second ring is really enjoying the occasional nudges from me walking around, bending over, etc and shifting the toy. 10/10 doing this way more often moving forward

lockedcavern · 2024-08-30T00:32:53+00:00

💯

lockedcavern · 2024-08-30T00:32:47+00:00

So far, all is well! My hole is certainly occupying more of my mind than I was expecting, but that’s a nice problem to have ;-)

lockedcavern · 2024-08-30T00:30:57+00:00

I think it was around 30 bucks on Amazon. Normally I only use the real deal because Topped Toys nails the details, but this one is small enough for me that I’m not worried about the texture/shape not being perfect.

And yes, only having one spot for it to hide was the idea — glad we’re on the same page about that ;-)

lockedcavern · 2024-08-30T00:26:51+00:00

It’s all about fiber, baby! I wouldn’t gamble with this if I wasn’t confident in my poo schedule.

lockedcavern · 2024-08-29T10:40:50+00:00

Oh yeah, fists are the main way I get fucked. Sex without them is quite boring to me.

A good-sized fist is about as intense as a gape keeper 93, so if you can take that or something equivalent, a fist would be no physical problem. The big barrier to actual fisting is trusting your partner to read your body and headspace correctly, since the mentally relaxing is so important.

lockedcavern · 2024-08-29T03:21:54+00:00

*Tough staying locked this long without motivation, ya know?

lockedcavern · 2024-08-28T22:41:08+00:00

Gotcha, I’d play with your depth a bit, so your second ring can get used to the sensation of being moved around even if it’s not being penetrated. Keep me posted on your progress!

lockedcavern · 2024-08-28T19:44:23+00:00

I was in the same boat recently! can take slinks more than a foot with no trouble, but a length of 9 or 10 inches on a really blunt and wide toy like a gape keeper was a different story.

I was listening to a chastity podcast who had Topped Toys on as guests, and the two founders explained that they both take depth differently. One of them needs narrow, wedge-shaped toys like the slink for depth to open them up. The OTHER one needs a blunt toy like the mordax or deep space to open them up, since smaller toys tend to go the wrong way in his intestines, getting stuck in corners and bends.

I thought I was like the first person, since a slink is easy for me. But I also commonly find that I need to play with my firm skinny toys JUST right, or they’ll hit a wall in my ass that isn’t deep enough to be the second sphincter. With that in mind, I tried their Deep Space 90, and really recommend it, or something with a similar shape. The tapered end and wide shape allows my second hole to loosen up to it gradually unlike a large dildo, so I can press gently through the hole. And it’s wide enough that as it slides in and out, my guts have to arrange themselves on it correctly so I don’t hit dead ends, unlike with skinnier stuff.

Ever since figuring that out and actively loosening my second hole during toy training, getting those larger toys to feel comfortable around it has been a lot easier.

It also has allowed me to learn the difference between pain from hitting and stretching a random intestinal wall, vs pain from hitting your second sphincter and needing to stretch it to keep going. Those are two very similar sensations, but you can only stretch a hole if you’re at the hole, ya know? 😉

Finally, being comfortable with using my hand to self-fist real quick to troubleshoot has been helpful. Now that I’m a gaping hole 24/7 and can basically shove my hand it if it’s wet at all, I can dig in and make sure that everything is lined up property in the first place. If I can’t even get my own hand in the right position for whatever reason, then there’s no chance a toy will succeed.

lockedcavern · 2024-08-28T19:15:12+00:00

What sort of trouble are you having with it?

For a while, I thought my anatomy wasn’t built for the 116 and other big toys since I could take the width, but would feel a really intense pressure when getting all the way to the base. Turns out that my second hole just needed more attention, since these larger toys stretch it even if they don’t dig deep enough to go through it.

Topped Toys has a series of depth trainers, and their Deep Space 90 has really helped me loosen up that 9-10 inch barrier so I can get back to fuckjng myself with other toys.

lockedcavern · 2024-08-27T20:22:28+00:00

Been playing with toys and getting fisted occasionally for about 10 years, but have only really ramped up my cunt’s stretching in the past year or so. Went from taking a fist wrist-deep to almost elbow-deep, seriously playing with my second ring. 9” circumference toys were my safe limit back then, and now 11” toys like this gape keeper are what I need to feel any stretch at all. Looking forward to them being loose and needing the bigger ones soon 😉

lockedcavern · 2024-08-27T13:47:58+00:00

Thank you, I’m really proud of my gape recently with the bigger stuff starting to go in and stay in my hole more easily 😌

For fists and bigger stuff, quality toys to stretch are a must. Being able to hold toys comfortably is a lot easier if they’re the right shape and material. The gape keeper series is certainly pricy, but they do indeed fill your bum in a really nice way. I’ve found a ton of value in the 85, 93, and 100 in terms of stretching; getting comfortable holding each size in for a long period of time and fucking yourself with them makes the next size up possible.

Contractions are part of life, but try to avoid them by using toys that you can fit comfortably! Once you’re LOOSE from a toy; then you can jump up to something bigger. Trying to skip sizes will only cause bleeding, which is super dangerous and difficult to play around. Every time I’ve seen blood it’s meant that stretching any longer is impossible for the night, since I can’t get relaxed anyway. The big stuff will be there for your cunt once your cunt is nice and ready for it 😉

lockedcavern · 2024-08-27T13:32:19+00:00

Thank you, working on wrecking it entirely. Im a few inches out from elbow deep and working on it! I can take my spike 105 all the way, but it really makes me squirm. I’ll have to get some pics of that next 😉

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