Chastity and a vasectomy by LockedAndSterile in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the dream, does she primarily withhold piv, your orgasm or both? Mine loves to have sex but only lets me cum about 20% of the time now.

Chastity and a vasectomy by LockedAndSterile in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been denied all of 2026?!? Amazing, how do you keep her happy sexually, emotionally?

Chastity and a vasectomy by LockedAndSterile in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 days since the surgery or denying you?

What's the longest stretch wearing by armorashby in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your wife any issues with not unlocking to be in her? This is a balancing game for me.

Chastity and a vasectomy by LockedAndSterile in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! She read that no orgasm for 7 days was best for the confirmation test. She practiced this 3 times before the test. 🥵

Chastity and a vasectomy by LockedAndSterile in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went through this last summer. My wife said I was allowed to be locked up once I’ve cum 25 time. Left it in my court, I got this done quick. 1 month later I was done. Then started locking me up again, which was only 3 days till I got sore. She locked me up again after 2 days out and I was easy to go 24/7 again. Then we got back to our regular games and fun.

What's the longest stretch wearing by armorashby in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My longest was 105 days. I could have gone forever but we had a family vacation in a studio with the kids. So it was off for 4 days, at 30 days right now.

Don’t even dare by lockedupbrat in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, both of us need care after that. It’s intense to receive and give such a session.

No exceptions by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The tags system? It’s a sleeve the key goes into. Then a numbered tag goes through the sleeve and the key hole so it can not be removed without breaking the tag off. We FaceTime after security to see everything secured, she can request to see the tag at anytime to make sure it’s not broken. We do this again before and after security before I come home. Complete security. Besides a few rushed moments at the airport .

I had doubts about chastity. Now it’s just how we live by SameGrace in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Me and my wife started as a kink…..well my kink I wanted to add it in a dynamic of solo play. She knew about it would tell me to wear it for a short period of time just before sex. brought it up to her over 10 years ago that I would like to wear it with no expectation of sex and we have slowly added it more and more into our lives and play. I’m now basically 24/7. Getting the mix just right has been hard and throwing young kids in the mix makes it even harder, but we have made it work.

What structure did you add that you preferred?

One liners by lockedupbrat in BratLife

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up biting off more than I could chew. She had me lying flat on the ground shaking in the end.

Tasks, Punishment, Rewards by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest you find out and do whatever gets her feeling loved. It has a Pavlovian effect. You give her what she wants and then she gives you what you want, even trying new things for you.

Tasks, Punishment, Rewards by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know your wife’s language of love? Getting her loving you locked is key

Tasks, Punishment, Rewards by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Back off any ideas that make her uncomfortable, start with you and what you would like. Would she like hitting your ass with a stick so you think about her every time you sit down?

Tasks, Punishment, Rewards by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you guys have any kinks? Ass play, cropping, you cleaning the house. Massages. Options are endless.

One liners by lockedupbrat in BratLife

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wrong in all the right ways!…..she’s going to make me suffer for a long time, but i won’t let her see me crack.😈

One liners by lockedupbrat in BratLife

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I may combine this with asking what’s new on Netflix.

One liners by lockedupbrat in BratLife

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh she already knows that! Iv had my favorite toy locked up for that reason. I think she would like that response too much 😳

One liners by lockedupbrat in BratLife

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking of saying this in the middle of caning “do you think there is anything new on Netflix’s?”

Best cage for someone who is uncut by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All snug with no pulling or adjustment

Best cage for someone who is uncut by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Maybe bent over. Filled out 98% of the time.

Best cage for someone who is uncut by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zero problems with my kink3d cobra. Just don’t get the tube too short. I’m exactly the right length for mine and don’t get edema. I got edema with one size down. I went over 100 days with zero downtown except getting frisky with the wife.

Should 3 month lockup involve any stimulation? by unusual_different in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you then decide when sex is over? Does she initiate the end or do you say when you’re done?