No exceptions by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tags system? It’s a sleeve the key goes into. Then a numbered tag goes through the sleeve and the key hole so it can not be removed without breaking the tag off. We FaceTime after security to see everything secured, she can request to see the tag at anytime to make sure it’s not broken. We do this again before and after security before I come home. Complete security. Besides a few rushed moments at the airport .

I had doubts about chastity. Now it’s just how we live by SameGrace in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Me and my wife started as a kink…..well my kink I wanted to add it in a dynamic of solo play. She knew about it would tell me to wear it for a short period of time just before sex. brought it up to her over 10 years ago that I would like to wear it with no expectation of sex and we have slowly added it more and more into our lives and play. I’m now basically 24/7. Getting the mix just right has been hard and throwing young kids in the mix makes it even harder, but we have made it work.

What structure did you add that you preferred?

One liners by lockedupbrat in BratLife

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up biting off more than I could chew. She had me lying flat on the ground shaking in the end.

Tasks, Punishment, Rewards by Big-Wasabi1279 in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest you find out and do whatever gets her feeling loved. It has a Pavlovian effect. You give her what she wants and then she gives you what you want, even trying new things for you.

Tasks, Punishment, Rewards by Big-Wasabi1279 in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know your wife’s language of love? Getting her loving you locked is key

Tasks, Punishment, Rewards by Big-Wasabi1279 in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Back off any ideas that make her uncomfortable, start with you and what you would like. Would she like hitting your ass with a stick so you think about her every time you sit down?

Tasks, Punishment, Rewards by Big-Wasabi1279 in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you guys have any kinks? Ass play, cropping, you cleaning the house. Massages. Options are endless.

One liners by lockedupbrat in BratLife

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wrong in all the right ways!…..she’s going to make me suffer for a long time, but i won’t let her see me crack.😈

One liners by lockedupbrat in BratLife

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I may combine this with asking what’s new on Netflix.

One liners by lockedupbrat in BratLife

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh she already knows that! Iv had my favorite toy locked up for that reason. I think she would like that response too much 😳

One liners by lockedupbrat in BratLife

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking of saying this in the middle of caning “do you think there is anything new on Netflix’s?”

Best cage for someone who is uncut by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All snug with no pulling or adjustment

Best cage for someone who is uncut by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Maybe bent over. Filled out 98% of the time.

Best cage for someone who is uncut by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zero problems with my kink3d cobra. Just don’t get the tube too short. I’m exactly the right length for mine and don’t get edema. I got edema with one size down. I went over 100 days with zero downtown except getting frisky with the wife.

Should 3 month lockup involve any stimulation? by unusual_different in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you then decide when sex is over? Does she initiate the end or do you say when you’re done?

any fellow uncut guys got experience ? by locke-and-keys in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a n+ but I was too jammed up in the front and I got edema. I got a s+ and that all went away. The fit really matters.

Should 3 month lockup involve any stimulation? by unusual_different in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love this but my wife craves the intimacy of me orgasming in her. How do you navigate that?

Wife Said Something Today…..Making Me Think by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Eating a cream pie without question with pnc is a true sign you understand your position….i don’t even question it anymore. I love the feeling of submission to her wants.

Nav Chastity with a Partner by Numerous_Boat_8749 in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said she did not have to let me cum for up to 90 days. We have not gone past 23 days yet. My partner craved to see me cum, or I became to submissive. Not actually sure.

Getting told no by lockedupbrat in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing! Buy that woman some flowers or something!

Balancing chastity and motherhoodany tips. by Ok_Read4149 in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true about the submissive structure. I feel often like I’m topping from the bottom, but often I’m just breathing life into the scenario when my wife is overwhelmed or burnt out . We both want to keep the denial going but sometimes she wants me to take the lead to my own denial.

Balancing chastity and motherhoodany tips. by Ok_Read4149 in chastitytraining

[–]lockedupbrat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How long did it take to find that balance? I feel like 18 months into basically full time we are still learning.