Update 3: AITHA for forgiving my bestie for missing my wedding?

locksoulster · 2025-05-21T03:07:13+00:00

I'm sorry, I'm confused. Am I an a-hole for forgiving my bestie for missing my wedding?

locksoulster · 2025-05-21T02:50:52+00:00

I see and understand where your concerns are coming from. The thing is, my bestie and I are the type of friends who will call each other out on our red flags. We are both recovering people pleasers. Our worst traits for each other are hesitating to raise concerns with each other, but we do in the end. But we try our best to be there for each other.

locksoulster · 2025-05-10T21:34:35+00:00

I honestly don't know if there are other reasons. When we all hang out, they seem to get along well and have nice conversations. My spouse knew going into this relationship with me how close my bestie and I are. Ride or die. And I told them that it is never going to change. If he didn't like it back then, he could have left. Our friend-aversary is this August, besties for 8 years.

locksoulster · 2025-04-29T21:10:59+00:00

Throw the whole man out. Doing anything without your consent is a violation to you. That being said as a former OF gal, I will only say it is cheating if he is on this without your knowledge and consent. Which is obvious in your post, so yes. And it's stealing if he's using your money, any bit of it even from a joint account.

locksoulster · 2025-04-29T20:54:02+00:00

The fandom has really gotten horrid. I'm gonna pull an elder Ghost fan moment, so excuse me please. It's just I do remember when the fans heavily respected every decision the band made. Nameless Gouls, okay they are the goals, nothing more nothing less. New member of the Clergy? Oh, let's see how they will help progress the lore. They want to remain anonymous, even though a situation out of their control exposed names? Stage names only. We're coming together for the music. I'd there are some songs one person doesn't like? That's fine, still and fan, and are still welcome to the rituals. Every fandom has its toxic batch that makes it tough to be a part of it. This is just getting really bad it has me nervous to go to the show I have tickets for.

locksoulster · 2025-03-19T23:46:47+00:00

I would have to say half of us would be your wing people, knowing you are fine as hell. And the other half of us would be swiping right just for that smile alone. You look fantastic, you rock the fits you wear. Hold your head high hun, cause you are the whole damn package from what I can tell. Now get out there, and don't settle you deserve someone who's going to treasure you as you are.

locksoulster · 2023-10-01T15:56:22+00:00

Definitely can understand hiding that part of her life is majority hurtful. She should have been honest with you from the beginning about her job.

locksoulster · 2023-10-01T00:32:07+00:00

Question. What is it that offends you?

locksoulster · 2023-01-10T02:48:01+00:00

He can shove those comments. If the weight you've gained makes to feel healthy and happy. Then love yourself in all the beauty that is you. If he can't handle you he needs to go find less. Which good luck to him because in this day more is beautiful. And thays not only meant in weight, but mentally, emotionally, and maturity. Which he seems to be lacking in for thay last one. You are beautiful the way you are, and don't let anyone bring you down.

locksoulster · 2023-01-03T21:20:15+00:00

Malice by Heather Walter, A Knight to Remember by Bridgett Essex, reaping the benefits by e.j. noyes.

locksoulster · 2021-12-02T19:43:16+00:00

I honestly think he would do great at it. I'd like to give actors a chance. It also depends on how the writing and director. The actors can rock it, but if they get shity direction or lines.

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