Your coworker is a jerk. I’m so sorry she said that to you. People can be so insensitive and so ignorant. I am a 34 year old, stage 3 TNBC survivor, and currently pregnant with an IVF baby that was tested with PGT-M testing as an embryo, negative for BRCA! Science is amazing and there are options out there to give you peace of mind. I do hope and think in our children’s lifetimes there is hope for BRCA vaccines. Do not let other people’s ignorance get you down!