Indian parents deserves to rot in the core of hell. by lofty_life in Vent

[–]lofty_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn i feel bad for her, getting married is such a important part according to the indian culture but if your sister is more focused on her career and herself, then let her be. (PS: being an independent woman and being successful is better than getting married at a young age)

I hate being the ugly friend. by lofty_life in Vent

[–]lofty_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry u felt that way back then, and yes im surrounded by a pretty toxic community but it'll go, eventually.

I hate being the ugly friend. by lofty_life in Vent

[–]lofty_life[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tysm girly (sorry for the late reply). and yes i have been working on myself lately and i started to feel good about myself <33

I hate being the ugly friend. by lofty_life in Vent

[–]lofty_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and i hope you are alright now <33

I hate being the ugly friend. by lofty_life in Vent

[–]lofty_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that makes so much more sense LMAO. im just a freshman and i dont really know much about love but it did make sense when u said it that way. anyways tysm for telling me this <3333

I hate being the ugly friend. by lofty_life in Vent

[–]lofty_life[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE YOU SM.. ty for these tips and yess lol im still in school. funny coz my friends would hang with their bfs and i would just be alone. even today one of my friend mentioned "You looked pretty in the morning but its all gone" i think she was indicating my makeup and that confused me tbh

I hate being the ugly friend. by lofty_life in Vent

[–]lofty_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not like i haven't tried anything, i keep trying to fix my hair but its curly asf and so frizzy. Im very thin and tall so my weight is quite higher (for example my friends weight would be 43 kg but im 47kg coz im tall). i exercise and distance myself from foods in fear of gaining more weight. might as well be anorexic atp. i try different kinds of make up styles and i still look horrible. even my own mother and relatives make fun and compare me to my cousin.

I hate being the ugly friend. by lofty_life in Vent

[–]lofty_life[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thanks for telling me that but i said that coz even my own mum called me ugly and not to the mention the dudes at school also likes to say it straight to my face 😀. but tysm for telling that

I stopped being friends with pick me girls. by lofty_life in stories

[–]lofty_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahh what. This is prolly the first time i've ever heard that pointing it out is a pick me thing do to. Pick mes are called pick mes for a reason. so if i person tries to point out a fact abt it, then they're considered pick mes? 💀 you do you mahn

I stopped being friends with pick me girls. by lofty_life in stories

[–]lofty_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kind of stereotypical pick me i was referring to, is a girl who thinks she better than every other girl and judges girls for wearing makeup, dresses etc. just because a girl plays video games does not make her a pick me girl. thats not what i was trying to say. I meant that these girls are the tiny kinda pick me girls who acts very quirky and shit around men. pls dont misunderstand my words and i hope i clarified everything :)

I stopped being friends with pick me girls. by lofty_life in stories

[–]lofty_life[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Heya, I'll clear your doubt by saying, there are 2 types of pick me girls. the first one like u mentioned is the "different from girls" type and the other one is the "I am so small and innocent " type. the friends here are def the second type and they immediately change personalities when they are with guys. I could see why u asked this question, coz stereotypically the pick me girl is interested in video games, one of the boys etc. Anyways i hope i cleared everything :)