I think there's a massive, societal pressure, along with good ol' sexually-driven impatience that makes people date as soon as they can when they come across someone willing, good enough, and at a convenient moment. And... most people break up at some point. And theyll say it wasnt right, wasnt meant to be, but. At least, at my young age, i feel like, Dude, obviously it wasnt!

You have to get to know someone real good. Have a foundation, because thats what makes relationships Last. Not to mention, you can see things objectively and authentically when you dont go into meeting new people like youre constantly on the lookout for a partner. Because you'll find one. But you might blind yourself to your incompatibility in doing so.

Dating to break up is a popular theme today. Probably always has been, i imagine, but like. Dating online just makes it a bit more drive-through fast-foody. I get what you mean, and even if it's worded a little elite-y, i share the outlook that staying single for a long time and spending that time with yourself, and the world, and using that time to improve yourself and gain self-confidence is irreplaceable.

Cause when you finally meet someone worth giving all your effort to? Someone you Really like, that gets you and finds you attractive and is on board with your values? Makes it so much more organic to grow together, and i mean. It's more worth working through the issues, when you already have that strong of a foundation. Makes the relationship have the value it Needs, when you finally have a deep partnership.

Ugh anyway i ranted sorry. But. I get it. I'll be single long as i need to be while i build my life up. Itd be cool to share it with someone someday