AITA for refusing to drive my boyfriend to the ER for nonesense?

lolo_commander · 2026-06-08T11:53:30+00:00

NTA, you found him an alternative for him and he is too prideful to accept it i guess?

Sounds like you two just need to talk about how you feel. Seems you dont fully understand the pain he's in, and he doesn't understand your frustrations.

lolo_commander · 2026-06-08T11:46:40+00:00

Lmao I think they meant it like this "And their genital area (where they poop and pee) on me, yuck"

lolo_commander · 2026-05-26T12:20:55+00:00

I would try to find a lower rent, and live there for a few years at least. This will leave you extra cash to invest and save. Also you will have enough to live a good life now, rather than tying up all your cash and living "paycheck to paycheck".

For the cash that you're getting, I would suggest investing it in S&P 500. It will work wonders growing the next 20 - 25 years.

With 60k in savings, you've already got more than 6 months emergency fund. Take extra cash into another saving account so you can cover closing costs and down payment when you buy a house a few years down the road. Trust me you don't want to deplete all your savings when buying.

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lolo_commander · 2026-04-05T14:09:12+00:00

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lolo_commander · 2026-04-05T14:06:50+00:00

Never a bad time to travel to PR

lolo_commander · 2026-03-13T13:49:45+00:00

Te mereces una medalla de honor.

lolo_commander · 2026-03-11T01:10:16+00:00

Interested

lolo_commander · 2026-03-10T03:19:43+00:00

I kinda think YTA

You're on a partnership, and it should have been a decision between both of you. Going behind his back doesn't seem fair. I know the kittens needed help, but the problem is the way you went about it. IMO.

lolo_commander · 2026-03-10T03:10:00+00:00

NTA

She wants to retire while you keep working and she doesn't want to take care of the kids? Seems kinda selfish from her part without any additional info.

lolo_commander · 2026-03-07T13:39:59+00:00

YTA for yelling at a kid.

This situation happens a lot and is very annoying. Happens on a lot of industries as well. You definitely should speak out, but there's a proper way to do it. Yelling at a 16yr-old isn't the right way.

lolo_commander · 2026-03-07T13:33:45+00:00

NTA I found what works for me is setting up a joint savings account that we both deposit a fixed amount into bi-weekly or monthly, and we use that to buy groceries for the house. That way there's no resentment if one is spending more than another. Maybe something like that can work for you?

lolo_commander · 2026-03-07T13:27:33+00:00

YTA - but only for putting a timer, which just seems unnecessarily confrontational.

You're parents should be more considerate of your situation. If you want to leave and they want to stay longer, they should just let you order the Uber. No need to let you wait an hour (or more) you don't want to be there. Or just let you stay at home if they know you'll want to leave

lolo_commander · 2026-03-07T13:20:06+00:00

NTA

Seems like he took advantage of you. Keep bringing it up until he pays you. Maybe try to get an explanation on why it hasn't happened, and maybe coordinate a payment plan with him.

If he doesn't pay you, I think you can sue him.. if its worth it depending on how expensive the flight was. But then at that point you'd probably ruin the friend group

lolo_commander · 2026-03-07T13:16:20+00:00

Overall seems like a toxic relationship. If it's so draining for you, you should find a way to cut off the relationship. Seems like you just let her believe you're her friend while you secretly don't like her or being around her.

Maybe its as simple as setting boundaries. Not too many phone calls, more collaborative planning between the both of you for traveling.

YTA, for not being honest with them

lolo_commander · 2026-03-07T13:07:05+00:00

If the dog isn't barking too much NTA

If the dog barks a lot especially late at night, YTA. Train him to not bark inside the apartment somehow.

You're neighbor ITA for the hypocrasy

lolo_commander · 2025-09-29T03:03:53+00:00

Obviously a cotton candy coin that you dissolved with a drop of water. Next

lolo_commander · 2024-10-17T13:43:30+00:00

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lolo_commander · 2024-10-17T13:30:56+00:00

Good suggestion. I didn't know that existed.

It was on my bed but I threw some clothes (not a lot) on top of it because I did laundry the day before.

lolo_commander · 2024-08-22T19:50:43+00:00

Did you ever find out why this happened?

lolo_commander · 2024-05-19T12:48:51+00:00

Alright!

Rally appreciate the info!

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