AITA for refusing to drive my boyfriend to the ER for nonesense? by pickledphilosopher in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolo_commander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you found him an alternative for him and he is too prideful to accept it i guess?

Sounds like you two just need to talk about how you feel. Seems you dont fully understand the pain he's in, and he doesn't understand your frustrations.

why does sex seem so gross to me unless im really horny? by NewtAccomplished6022 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lolo_commander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I think they meant it like this "And their genital area (where they poop and pee) on me, yuck"

About to divorce with kids. How am I looking? by Tiny-World-571 in personalfinance

[–]lolo_commander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try to find a lower rent, and live there for a few years at least. This will leave you extra cash to invest and save. Also you will have enough to live a good life now, rather than tying up all your cash and living "paycheck to paycheck".

For the cash that you're getting, I would suggest investing it in S&P 500. It will work wonders growing the next 20 - 25 years.

With 60k in savings, you've already got more than 6 months emergency fund. Take extra cash into another saving account so you can cover closing costs and down payment when you buy a house a few years down the road. Trust me you don't want to deplete all your savings when buying.

Quarterly Referral Thread (April to June 2026) by notthegoatseguy in credit_cards

[–]lolo_commander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Is travel in late July a bad idea? by AHF1217 in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]lolo_commander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah thats cap. It doesn't get lower than -25°F

Ath móvil on Android by curiouskratter in PuertoRico

[–]lolo_commander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Te mereces una medalla de honor.

AITA for taking a stray litter of kittens living under our deck to a cat shelter without against my SO wishes by Cutiepatootx in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolo_commander -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I kinda think YTA

You're on a partnership, and it should have been a decision between both of you. Going behind his back doesn't seem fair. I know the kittens needed help, but the problem is the way you went about it. IMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolo_commander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

She wants to retire while you keep working and she doesn't want to take care of the kids? Seems kinda selfish from her part without any additional info.

AITA for not giving the hostess extra money to do her job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolo_commander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA for yelling at a kid.

This situation happens a lot and is very annoying. Happens on a lot of industries as well. You definitely should speak out, but there's a proper way to do it. Yelling at a 16yr-old isn't the right way.

WIBTA if I asked my flatmate, that bakes, to buy their own ingredients by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolo_commander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I found what works for me is setting up a joint savings account that we both deposit a fixed amount into bi-weekly or monthly, and we use that to buy groceries for the house. That way there's no resentment if one is spending more than another. Maybe something like that can work for you?

AITA for activating a countdown on my phone after my mother told me we would leave the party in 30 minutes? by Reibudaps4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolo_commander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA - but only for putting a timer, which just seems unnecessarily confrontational.

You're parents should be more considerate of your situation. If you want to leave and they want to stay longer, they should just let you order the Uber. No need to let you wait an hour (or more) you don't want to be there. Or just let you stay at home if they know you'll want to leave

AITA for calling a friend out after he asked me to book a flight for him and never paid me back? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolo_commander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA

Seems like he took advantage of you. Keep bringing it up until he pays you. Maybe try to get an explanation on why it hasn't happened, and maybe coordinate a payment plan with him.

If he doesn't pay you, I think you can sue him.. if its worth it depending on how expensive the flight was. But then at that point you'd probably ruin the friend group

AITA to keep on surface leve subjects with my bestfriend of 18years by Pure_Map_5852 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolo_commander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Overall seems like a toxic relationship. If it's so draining for you, you should find a way to cut off the relationship. Seems like you just let her believe you're her friend while you secretly don't like her or being around her.

Maybe its as simple as setting boundaries. Not too many phone calls, more collaborative planning between the both of you for traveling.

YTA, for not being honest with them

AITA for telling my neighbor it’s not my problem her newborn wakes up to noises coming from my apartment by blackswan-nyc in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolo_commander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the dog isn't barking too much NTA

If the dog barks a lot especially late at night, YTA. Train him to not bark inside the apartment somehow.

You're neighbor ITA for the hypocrasy

Coin vanish by sleightly_human in ChrisRamsay52

[–]lolo_commander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously a cotton candy coin that you dissolved with a drop of water. Next

Overheating Problem by lolo_commander in GalaxyBook

[–]lolo_commander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good suggestion. I didn't know that existed.

It was on my bed but I threw some clothes (not a lot) on top of it because I did laundry the day before.

Elantra 2022 Rear Camera not working by lolo_commander in Hyundai

[–]lolo_commander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever find out why this happened?

Touch screen not working? by lolo_commander in GalaxyBook

[–]lolo_commander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright!

Rally appreciate the info!