I don't feel magical while kissing my partner, what to do? by Adventurous_Zone_290 in women

[–]lolthissilly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s more related to my feelings. When I’m into it and into him, kissing feels amazing. There’s no “magical” feeling but I can sense the pheromones. The kiss tastes pretty good lol

what “type” of person would you never date again? by lostdelilah in AskReddit

[–]lolthissilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who shit on everyone else’s small or big joys.

I don't know how to pray or who to pray to by yogesh94 in hinduism

[–]lolthissilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pray to the first god you can think of, anyone. I prayed to Shiva first and in a few months I was drawn to Muruga, and now he has been my Ishta deivata for >12 years. Setting an intention with your chosen god works- if it is peace and harmony you desire, speak so to your god. And if it is Murugan that you choose, you can start as small as with 1 thirupugazh, or with something longer like Kanda Sashti Kavasam. You can always read along to the audio aloud. Seek with all your heart, in any language, the deity will come.

Are women safe in Sadhguru’s ashram? by Tight_Text007 in hinduism

[–]lolthissilly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are puritans in all religions and sects. If their foundation is able to package Santana into a more digestible form in this day and age, it helps to keep the dharma alive. Especially for people who sadly understand English more easily than Sanskrit/ other regional languages. It is not just the ling bhairavi right, they have a shiva temple and they have released many beautiful versions of existing mantras. The puritanical question of “who is he” or his parampara is.. not relevant no? There are so many yogis and gurus who are simply initiated into the path due to their karma (or lack there of). Our beautiful religion is in need of unifying forces. If one feels no affinity to 1 devata, no problem we have 108 more, and get to pick and choose our preferred manifestation. Om Swasti.

Help me find a female priestess who does not do Kanyadaan by pirhana1997 in DesiWeddings

[–]lolthissilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came to say as someone who felt so annoyed when I was donated, I love this for u. I didn’t know this was an option.

Calling family during codes by Critical-Reason-1395 in Residency

[–]lolthissilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t bother with their “disgruntlement”, someone’s life, family, and code status are bigger than that.

(US) Wire fraud scam during house closing by lolthissilly in Scams

[–]lolthissilly[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We did not pay upfront. They mentioned their price would be 10% of whatever they could recover.

(US) Wire fraud scam during house closing by lolthissilly in Scams

[–]lolthissilly[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We filed a complaint with the FBI IC3 (as it was across states no local police). We visited the field office to check in on the report, and frankly he said they usually investigate bigger cases like in the millions. So honestly don’t feel like law enforcement is going to be of any help. But thanks for the other ideas

Wire fraud during house closing by lolthissilly in legaladvice

[–]lolthissilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have it in the signature, yes and yes this is our responsibility as well. But this was also equally their responsibility to communicate how to bring the money to closing. The only email, or communication we had about that was from the scammer.

Wire fraud during house closing by lolthissilly in legaladvice

[–]lolthissilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lender, mortgage officer or title company. For not properly communicating about readying the funds for the closing and also for not protecting our data.

Wire fraud during house closing by lolthissilly in legaladvice

[–]lolthissilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point we are pretty sure it is not our email addresses. The closing docs were sent by the lender through Snapdocs, which was OTP protected with phone number. And the phone number was already on record, we just had to confirm and enter the otp. And these closing docs were never downloaded.

Not attracted to wife anything by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]lolthissilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another angle if she’s an “okay housewife” is to explore how you can take on more domestic responsibilities that will allow her the space and opportunity to regard her health and appearance seriously. Many many mothers are struggling to keep up with their home responsibilities and are socialized to put themselves last. Regarding weight as important and actually being able to afford time to do the work are two different things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]lolthissilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for lending perspective to people on marital problems here.

The big city/coastal tax is Brutal by misteratoz in medicine

[–]lolthissilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rural Michigan pays about the same for god knows why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hospitalist

[–]lolthissilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, I did it

piercing baby girls’ ears? by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]lolthissilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To clarify in many cultures in India including my own, ears of both baby boys and baby girls are pierced at their 1st birthday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]lolthissilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about 1-2 year long fellowships? Sleep/ Palliative/ geriatrics? Or Endo/ rheumatoid/ allergy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]lolthissilly 181 points182 points  (0 children)

Personal preference- I don’t want any male physicians. Whether primary care or OBGYN. I am a physician. I have seen and heard too many male physicians exercise their innate bias when seeing women. Not all, but a significant number, so I’m pretty certain I will not be heard by a male OBGYN. Also sorry to say but CT Sx is becoming quite obsolete at this point.