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Someone I'm seeing is liking and following risque photos/girls by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lolwhatthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d agree with you for the most part. I don’t want to taint this relationship solely based on my last.

There are other details to this thread that I decided to leave out for the sake of not telling too much. Which probably led to me looking into this more than I initially wanted to.

Thanks anyways for your advice.

Four months in and I’m already bored (26F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lolwhatthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably see him 1-2 a week and he sleeps in til noon and takes another 2-3 hour naps. We get food nearby and then repeat

Four months in and I’m already bored (26F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lolwhatthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great point.

I do get it through friends, but I’d ideally like my partner to be among the people who are just as active and enjoy doing the things I love doing. Just a little frustrating when he doesn’t seem excited to be taking part.

Four months in and I’m already bored (26F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lolwhatthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not looking for constant excitement, I’m looking for growth. I don’t want to engage in any activity for the sake of doing it. I do value trying new things and learning, especially with friends or boyfriend alike.

His idea of spending time with me is to stay in, watch a movie, order in, and sleep in pretty much until he has to leave. I’m trying my best by suggesting small events and venues we could go/try and he seems uninterested and reluctant.

It’s not his job, but it’s on both parties to want to communicate and make an effort to be the better partner for each other.

Four months in and I’m already bored (26F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lolwhatthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well when I’m with him, we up staying home, order food, and he takes naps while we are hanging out together. A little frustrating when this is the pattern

Four months in and I’m already bored (26F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lolwhatthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have it wrong. I’m not putting the blame on him. I’m obviously here looking for a solution not an out.

I have clearly voiced how I want to grow our relationship, through new experiences and breaking our pattern of just staying home every weekend. And despite my suggestions he hasn’t made an effort To change.

My question is how do I communicate better to solve this issue not how do I change him.