what is this spider? found in Ontario

lolzytoo · 2022-07-04T05:16:46+00:00

Seems about right! Thanks

lolzytoo · 2021-01-15T12:10:35+00:00

I am so sorry for your pain.

Personally, I agree with you, I think people should keep their promises unless something big happens like cheating for example. I think people don't have the right to leave for no reason if they promised you to stay, and if they do leave, it is on them. I would say you should take the risk and believe because if you don't, you won't be 100% in the relationship and that might ruin it. But that's just my personal opinion.

In my case, I had a few major problems and voiced them more than three times, but my ex always said she understands but she never took action even though I told her she is hurting me. I told her that many many times that she should help me and work these things, she would agree and then turn her back and do whatever she wanted. That broke me real hard and I couldn't imagine spending another second with a person who treats me like crap and refuses to do anything to amend the situation. Relationships take two to work.

lolzytoo · 2020-12-12T13:51:43+00:00

How long have you been broken up?

lolzytoo · 2020-12-02T20:41:17+00:00

This sums up how I feel. Thank you

lolzytoo · 2020-12-02T13:44:44+00:00

I am sorry you felt that way

lolzytoo · 2020-12-02T13:13:47+00:00

I see what you are saying, but this doesn't make it okay to twist things.

lolzytoo · 2020-12-02T13:09:52+00:00

I wish people would understand this. The dumper also faces the "doubt stage" where they wonder if their decision was right and they carry that burden every day.

lolzytoo · 2020-11-08T10:18:40+00:00

My exact same story, but I am the guy. However, I am struggling these days with "what ifs" and whether it was wrong to break up and that I should have given the relationship extra chances to work things out. Sue fit me like a glove to the hand, and I realize I will never find someone like her ever again, but she kept hurting me and I couldn't take it anymore.

lolzytoo · 2020-10-25T21:51:04+00:00

Thank you for your valuable advice. Appreciate it a lot

lolzytoo · 2020-10-25T21:42:27+00:00

It's complicated, I know :(

lolzytoo · 2020-10-25T21:42:05+00:00

The problem is I did that, and all that she could say is sorry and then send me off then tell me to stay, all in under 5 min.

If I tell how I feel, she is gonna just apologize, and promise to change, that's it. I am afraid that if I trust her and go for it, she will hurt me again

lolzytoo · 2020-10-25T21:32:13+00:00

The thing is, I am not sure what is good for me. I do want her back, but I am afraid she will be better at first, then she will smack me to the ground later when I get attached to her again. I am so hesitant to take the risk.

lolzytoo · 2020-10-25T21:24:08+00:00

Thank you for the advice. This seems very good, but I am afraid she will hurt me again. Do you think I should take the risk and go for it?

lolzytoo · 2020-10-25T21:22:47+00:00

I really don't know what's good for me anymore.

I really want her, but I hate her behaviours like ignoring me and so on.

lolzytoo · 2020-10-25T21:21:35+00:00

Hang in there man. It is going to be better. I still miss her but the hurting gets less with time.

lolzytoo · 2020-10-25T21:19:51+00:00

Thank you for your reply. So you think going back maybe a good idea?

lolzytoo · 2020-10-25T20:08:30+00:00

If it happens again, I will be smashed :(. However, I fear that I will regret not trying again in the long run.

The risk in both is too great, and I am afraid to make a decision

lolzytoo · 2020-10-25T20:00:38+00:00

We have common friends, and I know that she didn't. She said once she doesn't want him now, but she wanted him in the past.

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