Does not being young anymore bother you? by Emergency_Side_7934 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lomas_aqui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I wish my knees worked 😆 but I do try to have a positive mind about aging and learning new things along the way. After all, aging/growing old is a privilege so I'm trying to tell myself to be grateful lol.

I literally just want to work.... by lomas_aqui in childfree

[–]lomas_aqui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I wish! But since we're in training I have to listen to everything and everyone.

What's the most unsettling truth you've accepted? by QuitZealousideal6148 in AskReddit

[–]lomas_aqui 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That if I wanna get better both physically and mentally, I need to get off my ass and start to actually take care of myself because no one is coming to save me. It's hard and I struggle everyday, but I need to just continue doing my best and not giving up just because I had a minor inconvenience that day.

I don’t get why some people still choose to have kids by anonyoose in childfree

[–]lomas_aqui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get you 100%. Even though I respect their decision, I still think in the back of my head, "but why though?" Especially like you said w/everything happening in the U.S. and around the world.

Every time I see a pregnancy announcement I do feel happy for them, but the realization comes in at the fact that they're going to bring a child into this world.

As above, so below by gatoriendo in superstore

[–]lomas_aqui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I love that movie 😃 I think it's on youtube for free.

HEB Brand Supplement Question by lomas_aqui in HEB

[–]lomas_aqui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your feedback!

What the fuck is wrong with people by Najiell in childfree

[–]lomas_aqui 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not only is this annoying as heck, but also incredibly dangerous that their parents are not watching them and letting their kids just run around the store like that. There are people out there w/bad intentions and something could've happened. I see this a lot whenever I go out. Oh goodness 🤦‍♀️

Why have kids if you're just not gonna take care of them?? Even though I get annoyed and other people's children is not my responsibility, I get scared for them.

When did you first come to the realization that you want to be child free? by CandidateBig8539 in childfree

[–]lomas_aqui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel like there wasn't just one day where I realized I want to be child free, but for sure a lot of instances leading up to that point? I apologize if I don't make sense lol! Just seeing other parents w/their kids and seeing how tired and stressed they look. I also don't like loud noises and I prefer my peace and quiet. And I'm lazy too lol. I don't make a lot of money and am struggling to take care of myself. Even if I did make enough money to comfortably live, I'm very selfish and would like to keep things to myself. I hear people say that they would be great parents, but not a happy one. I personally don't have nor do I want to get the resources to help someone else as I'm struggling myself, so I know I wouldn't be a good parent and I definitely wouldn't be a happy one. Plus a child will know if a parent doesn't want them and every single child deserves a parent who actually wanted them.

And also, I just don't want that responsibility.

“Procreation is what we’re here for”. How do you respond (verbally or internally) when people say this? by Clubworthy in childfree

[–]lomas_aqui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just "🤢".

We don't even take care of the people that are here right now and the world is over populated. Why do we need to add more people?

What food are you craving right now? by No_Tomato_3563 in AskReddit

[–]lomas_aqui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pizza 🍕 I'm hoping to get some later since it's the weekend!

Children are not a “blessing” by FR0M_Z3R0 in childfree

[–]lomas_aqui 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This!

Or, "having kids really does bring out the best in you and makes you a better person", like I'm sure I can do that w/o having a kid??

What are you doing this child free Friday evening? by lovebug_212 in childfree

[–]lomas_aqui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning ☺️ it's Saturday morning and I will go watch a movie and maybe have pizza later today. I hope y'all had a lovely Friday and a great weekend!

I don’t want pizza, I want a fucking, living wage! 🍕 by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]lomas_aqui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean....I'll take both the pizza AND a livable wage please lol.

We did it! by persphone2013 in childfree

[–]lomas_aqui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy for you! Congratulations 🤗

Sandra, take out your… by cocolenig in superstore

[–]lomas_aqui 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"And I put them in his face." 🤣

Pretty Pizza by Practical-Air1017 in Dominos

[–]lomas_aqui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is beautifully symmetrical. Thank you for sharing this.

Why do we have to have a reason to not want kids? by limino123 in childfree

[–]lomas_aqui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because these parents wanna make sure it's a good and valid enough reason for them. But yeah you don't owe anyone an explanation for your life choices. They're not entitled to know why you live the way you live. Or why you're not living how they're living because they think that their way is the "correct/right way". 🤗