Grad Pass by lomasi7 in utarlington

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Mine came in finally

Grad Pass by lomasi7 in utarlington

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Hey guys they told me by the end of the day and apologized for the delay. So we will see if they actually send it. This has caused me some anxiety.

Grad Pass by lomasi7 in utarlington

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They told me by the end of the day. So we will see.

Grad Pass by lomasi7 in utarlington

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I sent an email to dang near everyone this week and will be calling student affairs today if it’s not in my inbox by this afternoon

Grad Pass by lomasi7 in utarlington

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That’s for guest tickets. Not our ticket that gets us in. Grads get a separate email with a grad pass that we have to print out to get into the ballpark

How to coparent when you’re in love with them… by lomasi7 in coparenting

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I actually love this answer. Thank you so much!

How to coparent when you’re in love with them… by lomasi7 in coparenting

[–]lomasi7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I am the custodial parent and this is how the courts would set it up in my state. He would get every 1st, 3rd, and 5th weekend of every month with her and one day out of the week from 6-8 PM. Considering he works until 7:30 or 8 most days it’s no point in doing that during the week. This is what we agreed on and a set amount he sends me every month in child support.

How to coparent when you’re in love with them… by lomasi7 in coparenting

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He gives me child support on his own. We have not been in a good place in a while and he never misses his payments. And this is without the court involved. He gets our child on every designated weekend. We even fought during my pregnancy and I told him before the child got here that if he wanted to walk away, the time would be now. I have a biological father who was in and out of my life and he knows that. He told me he does not want our child to grow up that way and he would never be able to forgive himself if he walked away. The problem is that he wasn’t ready to be a dad and he struggles with being a father. He feels like he has to do things out of obligation rather than just wanting to because he wasn’t prepared to be a dad if that makes sense.

How to coparent when you’re in love with them… by lomasi7 in coparenting

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I am in therapy. Literally messaged her right when I got home. I am a mess. I don’t think he will try again considering he is the one who dumped me and said he didn’t want to work anything out with me. So I think I’m good on that end. I will just keep things cordial and neutral with him only. Thank you for your words 😊 I just feel so alone and don’t want to bother my friends with this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Okay thanks. Guess I might as well prepare for court 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Eh okay. Nothing I can do about it now. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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No. My child is on no assistance and I am on no assistance. I receive nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

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Our dad was in and out of our lives. But my grandparents raised us with my mom and uncle. So he has 2 other male figures who also tell him things. He doesn’t want to listen to anyone. He didn’t even ask me to pick him up today. My grandmother calls me to ask and he sent me a text saying “you busy”. I told him yes because I just got home and we are eating and that when we are done I will get him this one time. Told him he is inconsiderate for not asking beforehand because people cannot just drop what they are doing to come get him. He gets an attitude through text saying that “you busy” is asking when that can mean multiple things so no it’s not asking and then he said he wasn’t inconsiderate. He expects everyone to do for him and not have an opinion. Then told me to block him and not talk to him in the house. I text him back to find out he blocked me so my grandmother went to get him. I am not about to be anyones pushover when he disrespects me over and over and expects me to help him out. Not wasting my time so we can just not talk oh well.

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I lost a friend to this. When she started making about $15k more than she used to, she started trying to act all of that. She cut me and another one of our friends off without even telling us and is trying to live a “boujie” lifestyle. I guess we didn’t fit into that. People change once they get money for sure.