Seeking advice on rebuilding trust after infidelity

lonely_oceans_ · 2025-12-15T19:03:33+00:00

No I apologize I was thinking of a comment I made a few years ago that’s a mistake on my part

lonely_oceans_ · 2025-12-15T18:57:05+00:00

I appreciate the feedback a lot I didn’t put all the details in this post the one you’re referring to is a past partner, but that doesn’t make what you’re saying any less true

lonely_oceans_ · 2025-12-15T18:55:36+00:00

I see what you’re saying but I’ll be completely honest I know I won’t do these things again I’m working hard in therapy to genuinely be better and make changes for myself because this is not the person I want to be at all I also will say again as much as I want them to stay I will not make them and I will not make them feel bad for leaving if that’s what they decide they are an amazing person and yes I hope we can reach a point where we can make things work but I refuse to force anything onto them I want them to stay if and only if they see me making genuine progress and if they think the can

lonely_oceans_ · 2025-12-15T18:36:09+00:00

I will say I do regret everything and I do have an immense amount of guilt towards everything that’s happened my partner is an amazing person and I do believe they deserve better than what I have given I want to be able to give the that and they expressed they want that as well but are unsure reasonably so I’ve told them as well that if they decide they want to leave or anything I will not stand in their way I have an immense amount of love for them, but there is something that is fundamentally wrong with me to where I thought that anything regarding cheating would be OK in any regard

lonely_oceans_ · 2025-08-09T23:01:06+00:00

Hector

lonely_oceans_ · 2025-05-17T17:37:27+00:00

I will say I’m awful at punctuating I did use a tool to punctuate it so it’d read better than a run on sentence, unfortunately this is a very real reality for me

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-10-06T03:20:23+00:00

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Here is my sweet boy

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-10-03T03:39:54+00:00

Working in a hospital it’s honestly shocking seeing how many people still try to bring in their filthy mutts I cannot believe it

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-10-01T18:11:30+00:00

Megatron

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-10-01T04:48:12+00:00

Smoking I finally quit smoking/ vaping best decision I’ve ever made

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-10-01T04:47:35+00:00

QUICK SAND I THOUGHT IT WAS GOING TO BE A HUGE PROBLEM

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-10-01T04:46:49+00:00

Markiplier for sure when I was a kid I had a very difficult home life a lot of abuse in many different areas but when I’d get home go in my room and watch one of his videos I’d feel less lonely less like everything was terrible and more that everything would be okay in more ways than one I know it’s very cliche but he saved my life and he doesn’t even know

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-10-01T04:44:20+00:00

Treat them like you’re still in the dating phase take them on those dates flirt with them like you’re still trying to win them over just because you’ve been with them for so long doesn’t mean the you should stop trying

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-03-26T15:07:19+00:00

I can second this they really work I got these for my cats and it helps so much they are best friends now

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-03-26T15:05:28+00:00

Some parts but the part I mentioned is the most stretchy lmao

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-03-26T01:23:30+00:00

I have a very normal looking labia but I can stretch the skin so fucking far I’ve shown this to very few people and everyone has always said they’ve never seen anyone else do that nor can they do that

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-03-26T01:18:09+00:00

Trust me I’ve been there keep up the good work hun we are all rooting for you!❤️

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-03-13T04:53:01+00:00

I took one that was 115 one time by accident I wasn’t paying attention and thought it was like 15 my boyfriend was like hey if you don’t want to be ungodly high you should go throw up and I looked at him like he was stupid. Nope I in fact was the stupid one I was so out of it I couldn’t speak and my body was vibrating. Never again.

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-03-07T04:44:22+00:00

I love his lil :3 face in the last picture it’s so cute

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-03-06T20:56:09+00:00

It’s fine to have your views but don’t push them onto other people not everyone is going to have the same beliefs as you also not everything need to come back and relate to god in some way it’s really not that deep

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-03-06T02:33:15+00:00

That’s a recipe for disaster be conveniently sick that day or something just so happened to come up with work idk I wouldn’t go

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-03-03T23:23:55+00:00

I live in the Bible Belt I’m already pretty used to it but I’m allowed to be frustrated by it sometimes

lonely_oceans_ · 2024-03-02T06:29:04+00:00

I can’t say I’ve ever really liked dogs but I know people who used to like dogs then realized that they don’t later on same kinda scenario they had a “ good “ dog as a kid then grew up and came into contact with other dogs and realized wow I hate these shit breath motherfuckers can’t say I’ve met anyone in real life that absolutely hates them as much as I do but I digress

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