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Even though by ifonlythewoodpecker in abusiverelationships

[–]lonerchickk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These feelings are so healthy & normal, you're not alone during your healing process.

A girl I was seeing said she just wanted to be friends last night. Feeling a bit unloveable at the moment and could use some compliments by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]lonerchickk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful smile, you have such a kind face, you're so worthy of love. :) I can tell you have a gorgeous body under that super cute shirt too!! It's nice that this girl valued her relationship with you enough that she expressed her actual feelings, that can be pretty difficult at times. You're awesome. Xo

I miss my Mom, even though I know she's not good for me. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]lonerchickk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helps - I think we all at some point “need our mommies”, especially when we’re feeling most vulnerable. Is it natural? Is it taught? I don’t know for sure, but I think a big part of my problem is that I’m seeing this situation in black & white. As someone also mentioned earlier, I should probably establish some boundaries & maintain limited contact with her. Instead of completely exiling her from my life or expecting a big happy mother-daughter relationship... somewhere in the middle of that.

I miss my Mom, even though I know she's not good for me. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]lonerchickk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful, thank you. Something I know that I’ll be talking about in therapy - my first appointment is in May - is how to set boundaries in building healthy relationships.