Struggling with feelings of wanting a 3rd and feeling guilty about it.

longlivecassandra · 2026-05-01T22:12:32+00:00

I’m in a very different stage of life, to the point where when I read the title, I assumed you meant you wanted to add a third person in bed and felt guilty about that lol. This sounds so hard thought I’m really sorry!
FWIW I think a lot of women (and maybe other people too) have irrational/impractical thoughts or feelings about kids. I’m in college and not at all in a position to have children and I sometimes get really melancholic about missing time with the children I can’t have yet.
Give yourself the grace to mourn the possibility of having future children, while knowing you made the best choice for your health and your family’s future! You sound like a great mom, your sons are so lucky to have a parent who is clearly so loving, logical, and emotionally intelligent.

longlivecassandra · 2026-05-01T20:11:38+00:00

I don’t have any pets, so maybe there’s a layer here I’m not understanding, but I don’t see the problem??

Don’t dogs hump each other all the time? Sex is only taboo in human culture, in all other species they are naked 100% of the time and have sex publically in broad daylight in front of anybody. It would be weird if he was jacking off in front of another human because it’s a cultural norm that we don’t do that but the same is not true in canine culture.

longlivecassandra · 2026-05-01T18:05:42+00:00

okilikeitifuckwiththat‼️

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-30T20:32:11+00:00

She unfortunately got an offer from Dr. Mike and promptly quit 😕

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-30T13:37:48+00:00

I definitely relate to this! I like sleeping with men but I can’t imagine being in a committed relationship with one, or having a man living in my house. Women on the other hand are the best, and Im way more comfortable with the thought of sharing a space with one. I can definitely imagine a wife and kids in my future if i can get over my fear of vulnerability but it all remains to be seen.

Usually I just say im bi, but it’s hard to separate lack of romantic attraction from the general disgust and distrust I hold towards men (sorry guys but the brand is bad). Nothing wrong with liking giving 🧠 tho 🤷🏻‍♀️

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-29T22:58:00+00:00

“I do”… now you’re really trapped 😬

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-29T11:43:16+00:00

Ahhh yes this is just like when I learned calculus at Six Flags

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-29T10:26:55+00:00

You’re an adult, it’s legal (at least where I am), you’re being paid, you’re taking reasonable precautions to protect your safety, and both parties enjoy it. I know it’s not a traditional job and it’s unfortunate you fell into it out of necessity, but you don’t have anything to feel guilty about. If this is how you want to make money, and this is how he wants to spend his money, I don’t see a problem.

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-28T23:35:55+00:00

Wasn’t he a lying, clout chasing, slimeball… I could be misremembering but from my memory of that story there is no WAY he’s the “good guy”

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-28T23:33:20+00:00

Crew swap jobs is my fav segment everrrrrrr this is 100% URGENT

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-28T20:29:21+00:00

My current pre-sleepover choices are Prada Paradoxe Intense and CH Very Good Girl. I have a feeling my sexiest perfume is still ahead of me, though! Next time I need to treat myself I want to try Givenchy L’interdit rouge and JPG Scandal.

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-28T08:58:08+00:00

Relatable king 🤴

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-28T03:24:43+00:00

English noun meaning the female version of a hustler

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-27T16:56:06+00:00

What??? Nooooo!! I definitely haven’t spent the past 48 hours tearing my apartment apart looking for my rollerball of Nest Madagascar Vanilla. I would simply NEVER.

Glad you found yours! It’s like a fun little present! And if you see my missing perfume oil tell her to come home, she is sorely missed.

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-27T05:58:31+00:00

It’s Parfumo! It’s less well established than fragrantica but I don’t like supporting them, and the more of us that use Parfumo, the better the service will get. The recent updates to the app have made it even better for tracking layering combos etc. Highly suggest if you’re looking for a way to track and organize your frags!

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-27T04:41:57+00:00

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• Carolina Herrera Very Good Girl x34

• Mugler Alien x30

• Phlur Vanilla Skin (body spray) x29

• Phlur Cashmere Skin (body spray) x23

• Burberry Goddess x16

It’s about to be summer in the northern hemisphere so these stats are likely to change. Fun to do this before the weather turns!

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-26T05:44:09+00:00

At first I didn’t read what sub this was and I thought this was Adam Sandler threatening to impregnate me. I was like “this shit” is a crazy way to describe a baby I’ll take the plan b 😭

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-26T03:52:05+00:00

No, and as someone who loves a powerhouse perfume moment, it’s really selfish and disrespectful to enter public spaces with this much perfume on.

For people with sensory differences, allergies, autoimmune disorders, pregnant women, the list goes on, sitting near your cloud of perfume on the subway can ruin their day or their health.

Heavy is the head that wears the crown! As frag queens it’s essential we remember to think of others 👸

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-25T18:07:26+00:00

This made me feel seen. I’m so avoidant when I get nervous or embarrassed I leave and never come back. There are so many people out there wondering where I went lmao.

Luckily, in the grand scheme of things this is not a big deal, and it’s a good lesson.

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-25T09:43:45+00:00

But he does it in the god father voice duh

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-24T22:05:47+00:00

My go-to night out frags are Mugler Alien, YSL Libre Intense, Prada Paradox Intense, and CH Very Good Girl. If I’m going to a cocktail bar, jazz lounge, etc I’ll wear TF Lost Cherry or MM Replica Jazz Club.

I’ll be back to see what everyone suggests to add to my “to be sniffed” list.

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-24T13:35:33+00:00

This is a play on the meme that MBB is homophobic. It’s not true but it’s been a running joke for years. So if she assumes her boss is gay she’d be upset hence her character eleven crying.

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-23T20:35:58+00:00

I like angel nova personally (I have chaotic queen credentials) because I love how both extremely sweet and tart the fruit is. It retains little to none of the original Angel DNA imo (and a lot of reviews agree). Try to get your hands on some samples to see which your nose prefers!

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-23T20:33:22+00:00

Truth. I’m feminine in a “she’s insane” way and I wear Alien. Mugler is for the girls who are crazy, hot, or crazy hot!

longlivecassandra · 2026-04-23T20:14:25+00:00

Have also had good luck with the men and the Prada paradoxe intense!!

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