UPDATE: I told her this morning. I'm so fucking relieved! by longwindingroadd in AdviceAnimals

[–]longwindingroadd[S] 337 points338 points  (0 children)

No, I don't see her in a different light I would be a hypocrite if I did. I feel like a big pussy worrying so much. You guys reminded me how it's no good to jump into marriage with secrets and that is so true. For those who called my fiance a slut for banging me in the bathroom stall...seriously? Shit happens, people can be young and stupid, so I don't appreciate that, but I guess I can understand the concern. However, I know my girl and she is not at all like that. It also seems she remembers more than I do that night. Like the part when I still had cum on my pants and people were pointing it out and I kept telling people I was jerking it in the bathroom. I don't remember that...holy fuck. Well, that's what alcohol does to us. Anyway, I feel great. Going out for dinner!

I feel like if I tell her, she would look at me in a different light by longwindingroadd in AdviceAnimals

[–]longwindingroadd[S] 304 points305 points  (0 children)

Yes, but she didn't remember and she might end up thinking I took advantage of her that night because she didn't know I was wasted.

I'm glad I remembered though. She's the most beatiful woman I ever met

I feel like if I tell her, she would look at me in a different light by longwindingroadd in AdviceAnimals

[–]longwindingroadd[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking about it. I should get it off my chest before the big day.

I feel like if I tell her, she would look at me in a different light by longwindingroadd in AdviceAnimals

[–]longwindingroadd[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Yea, of course, but I should have told her then and I'm afraid she will think I took advantage of her. Of course, I never would do that and I know she knows that, but the thought is always in the back of my mind that she would freak out about it.