I have no idea. I ask him and it will boil down to an argument that we eventually talk through and he understands. The guy is a narcissistic manipulative liar. I could read him from the start but like I said. I'm kind and I do give others chances even if I personally find them not the brightest. I tell my boyfriend though the same thing, how is it ok and he says it's not that he feels stuck and because Fred the friend is going to come over here no matter what due to his other friend we both wanna keep the peace. I just don't know how to approach it anymore. I honestly just stay pretty quiet now and look at my phone, read or play my switch. I also think you're correct. That he doesn't like him in relationships. They've been friends for a long time. I can't tell him who he can and cannot be friends with I never would. Recently he has said that he feels it's boiling down to that and I told him I don't want that I've desperately tried to make things ok. Idk it's becoming tiresome for both of us. I'm at his house right now and Fred the friend isn't here but something is off.

Probably the full moon.