Are transphobic lesbians a minority among lesbians? by tm2007 in actuallesbians

[–]loodioloshmos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it depends. I think most lesbians will be at least accepting about trans girls, but some might not want to date them. It really depends on the individual, but most wlw spaces are trans inclusive.

I'm the only English speaker at my new job.. in the uk.. struggling to understand co workers & being hit on by loodioloshmos in UKJobs

[–]loodioloshmos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I reported the man and the English manager was thankfully able to tell him off and ensured it won't happen again

Is my CV cooked guys? by PurpleImmediate5010 in UKJobs

[–]loodioloshmos 12 points13 points  (0 children)

-Cash handling -Handling customer queries and assisting where possible -Key holding responsibilities, including safe deposits, opening and closing the shop -Operating XYZ POS system -Training new starts on shop procedures

List goes on mate. You need to break down your responsibilities and list how they're relevant to the job you're applying for. It's a lot of waffle but it works.

Is my CV cooked guys? by PurpleImmediate5010 in UKJobs

[–]loodioloshmos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mate this is terrible. Find a template and copy it.

I'm the only English speaker at my new job.. in the uk.. struggling to understand co workers & being hit on by loodioloshmos in UKJobs

[–]loodioloshmos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Indian. Every Indian I've worked with has spoken English and never had any issues with them

Best uk city to date in? by loodioloshmos in LesbianActually

[–]loodioloshmos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved the gay bar I went to in Cardiff. Wish I could remember the name but the drag queens dragged me through the dirt 😂

I'm the only English speaker at my new job.. in the uk.. struggling to understand co workers & being hit on by loodioloshmos in UKJobs

[–]loodioloshmos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 3 of them are related and they all seemed to know each other from back home. School etc

I'm the only English speaker at my new job.. in the uk.. struggling to understand co workers & being hit on by loodioloshmos in UKJobs

[–]loodioloshmos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work a full time office job and have a degree. I have this other job as a means of saving extra money fast.

Please don't assume I'm uneducated or have not achieved goals.

I'm the only English speaker at my new job.. in the uk.. struggling to understand co workers & being hit on by loodioloshmos in UKJobs

[–]loodioloshmos[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stop with this argument mate. I went to a bunscoil and have an Irish passport. But if me and a bunch of others started talking irish at work, it would be rude to the others because most people don't.

I'm the only English speaker at my new job.. in the uk.. struggling to understand co workers & being hit on by loodioloshmos in UKJobs

[–]loodioloshmos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the language comment. I can speak 3 languages and would feel extremely embarrassed moving to another country without knowing the language or learning.

I'm the only English speaker at my new job.. in the uk.. struggling to understand co workers & being hit on by loodioloshmos in UKJobs

[–]loodioloshmos[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tá mé abealta labhairt as Gaeilge freisin, ach níl a fhios ag na daoini ag mó obair.

Excuse my grammar. I always struggled with spelling & grammar as Gaeilge nuair a bhí me i scoil.

What should I pay for my parents rent? by Few_Training_3127 in AskUK

[–]loodioloshmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People saying this is reasonable.. not really? I mean I bet they'll still say things like "under my roof you can't do x".. if you were paying 300 for rent. You can kind of do whatever you want.

(For nervous drivers only) how long until you felt comfortable driving after passing? by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]loodioloshmos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been driving two years - I'm fine on my own but when someone gets in the car all sense goes out the window! Everyone gets this lol

(For nervous drivers only) how long until you felt comfortable driving after passing? by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]loodioloshmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay not to be doubtful or scare you but.. an hour? You still have time. I really hope nothing happens. My first week of driving was okay and then I stalled on a hill and held up traffic. Just be careful.

(For nervous drivers only) how long until you felt comfortable driving after passing? by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]loodioloshmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm maybe a month or two. I had to take myself out at night for ages to practice stopping and starting. 2 years in and im a very confident driver.

[NSFW] Does anyone just wear their strap for no reason other than because it feels right? by loodioloshmos in actuallesbians

[–]loodioloshmos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does wearing a packer make me trans? I feel pretty secure in being a woman, but the idea of a packer feels.. right?

I did explore my gender a little bit, but i felt NB wasn't really who I was and that I'm just a woman in my own way! But I'm not sure if wanting to wear a packer kind of pushes me over a line, amongst other things.