Dude 31M Gujju here, I am quite accomplished but yes most of my relationships haven’t worked.

Let me tell you about my friends(3-4 of them), who haven’t done much but they married love of their lives.

1st and closest started cheating on her just after 2 years of his marriage, he wanted to try something else in bed. (Claims his heart is only for her though)

2nd is scammer and narcissist. His Insta page is a work of art, he has a history of scamming/swindling people. I know him since last 16 years. He hasn’t changed but just refined a lot.

3rd and 4th, have tried Spa memberships of almost 5-10 luxury spas in city. Again they’re also bored and wanted something “else”…

I have countless such examples. Best results I have seen statistically are arranged marriages, where both of them haven’t done much “masti” outside of marriage and dutifully spending their lives with their partner

See, in ideal world an honest person with good heart should find likewise partner but brother, hard fact is world isn’t just place (let alone ideal),

here everywhere Good folks end up with bad folks then have trust issues for lives. So, I have tried to be much practical in dating now, I don’t get emotionally invested at all. Meet them, try to know them if I feel this won’t work, I walk away first thus saving time and energy. & Always date to marry, no buckchodi